Divorced, living alone again having started therapy and HRT after trying fight this by putting it all behind me a few years back. Realizing I needed to face the fact that I'm more than just a CD, I...
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Divorced, living alone again having started therapy and HRT after trying fight this by putting it all behind me a few years back. Realizing I needed to face the fact that I'm more than just a CD, I...
I've never purged anything but I have stopped dressing for long periods. Currently, the last time I dressed was around 2011 I think.
1) NA - I do not dress fairly regularly, or even just regularly for that matter
2) NA - I have never dressed around my wife so I have no way of measuring how I treated her.
3) NA - I don't feel...
I don't believe the clothes themselves are that important to me, although back in the beginning it was easy to think they were. Of course, I can say that now having not dressed in a few years and not...
I told my wife about a month after I joined this forum. She went through all of the expected emotions and took the time to weigh the new information I dumped on her. I know it was hard for her at...
I told my wife back in 2007 just around our 10th anniversary. Of course there were awkward times while she came to terms with this "surprise" that she never expected but after a few bumps, life...
Your post sounds reasonably thought out and I wish you well. I've not dressed for about 5 years now and although I do login here periodically, there's really no other active outlet for something that...
While I don't believe it's something you can give up, in the same way that one can't stop being short or have blue eyes, I haven't had much connection with this area of my life (except for the...
Hard one to answer since I'm not sure how correct your "someone" is, but I guess I'd have to disagree with their assessment regardless. Being straight involves one's capacity to be sexually attracted...
I was once brought to tears during a conversation with my wife a few years ago, struck not necessarily by shame or guilt, but simply because I felt like I understood the pain that I caused her when I...
Quite a few.
:)
jenn
You might be correct in some specific cases but with regard to my one experience, I was actually in a group of about 30 people, none of whom knew me. I spoke to nobody prior to the start of the...
The experiences I've had have all been positive. Spot on with specific details and information no one would have known. Weighing all that was said as a whole, it was more than coincidence and nowhere...
My wife does not "like" the fact that this is a part of me, but she accepts that it is a part of me and has not ever said "you cannot" (other than the understanding that she does not like shaved legs...
Very rarely,... I can probably count the number of times this aspect of my life crosses over into my dream state on one hand (and maybe an extra thumb or other digit if I think really hard about it)....
Heck, I've done it occasionally for years at a time and haven't died from withdrawal yet!
:)
jenn
I think my earliest memory in this area was being about 3 or 4 yrs old at a family member's wedding and having a vividly clear memory of one of the guest's white patent leather knee high boots and...
With the holidays here what are some of your family traditions? (Non CD related please)
Normally we all get together with our parents and immediate family for a huge meal after the kids all open...
And in case you want to include us "immature" members as well, I'd have to say if I went back to that time, I might consider moving forward in a different direction... but of course that would be...
As long as she knows some things now, allow her the opportunity to dictate the speed with which she can handle the information. You don't really want to overload her, especially if she appears to...
Maybe that trick will work with my attempts at keeping my butt from drooping!
:)
jenn
I'm quite happy being where I am, yes. To be honest, the idea of going out and trying to "fit in" as Jenn has been something I'd thought about since the beginning, but the reality is I'm simply not a...
Nothing except my past-my-shoulder length hair... but it's not always a reminder of Jenn as much as a reminder that I've always tended to be different in some way or another.
:)
jenn
Maybe once every few weeks for and hour or so. I wouldn't mind more time to dress but that would mean more time without my family around and that's not what I'm about at this point in my life so I...
That all depends,... if it's a neighbor, you can pretend you're not home (as long as they don't peek in and see you first) but if it's the FedEx or UPS guy and he's delivering a bunch of skirts and...