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I get along pretty well with my dad. We've had our share of differences, but I think we've both mellowed a bit over the years. And we've learned that there are some subjects we just don't talk about...

I've thought about this a fair bit over the years, and I think that at least in my case, it's nature. Mainly because crossdressing is such a deep-rooted part of who I am, because I've had thoughts of...

Absolutely! One thing I've learned in my years of working with children is that encouragement goes a long way. I think the same thing applies to all people.

I wonder if we're seeing typically (or...

For me the problem is how to not cross my legs. I find it the most natural and comfortable way to sit, but I'm always worried about being judged, so I try to be conscious to avoid it if I think...

I'm 31 (will be 32 before the summer's out).

Crystal

I'm 31, and I've been actively crossdressing since I was 13, though I can remember thinking about it for many years before that.

Crystal

1. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little more than a year now, and she accepts 100%. I told her that I was a crossdresser within our first week of going out, and now Crystal is a part of both...

I guess I'm an exception - I'm probably one of the least "technical" people I know. I had to get my dad to teach me how to use an iPod, and even then I had trouble with it! Fortunately, my job is...

I’d like to echo some of the advice that’s already been offered on this thread: give it time. It took a year before you told your girlfriend; let her have some time to get used to the idea. I...

I know what you mean about feeling polarized, though I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. Compromise is a part of life. Personally, I find that I let my male and female sides wax and wane....

I can remember thinking about crossdressing (mostly just vague, idle notions - nothing really concrete) from the time I was four or five, but it wasn't until I was thirteen that I finally took the...

Hi Veronica. Welcome to the forum! I agree with your fiancé - you look great. With your look and that outfit, you shouldn't have any trouble blending in.

Crystal

My girlfriend is a member here in her own right. She probably spends about as much time on this site as I do (which isn't actually a lot).

Crystal

I also agree with Asako. I think your best bet is to sit down with your sister and talk about this. Let her know that you want this secret to remain between the two of you. Depending on how close the...

I'm not married. but my girlfriend knows and is completely supportive. I absolutely love having her involved in this part of my life, but then I have made it a point to be honest with her. I told her...

My girlfriend and I have now been together for six months (not that long, I know), and I told her about my crossdressing within our first week of going out. We had been friends for some time before...

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. For me, the urge to dress waxes and wanes. Sometimes when I can't dress, it's an all-consuming...

If your partner knows about your TG status:

31) Do they know you use this site (or other TG related sites)?

Yes.

32) If so are they a member of this site or any other you use? If not a...

The last person I told was my girlfriend, a few months ago. It was only the second time I'd ever told anybody about this, and I couldn't have hoped for a more positive, accepting response.

Crystal

Whoa!

I don't think we can generalize about what women want any more than we can generalize about what men want. And we all know that different men have very different tastes in women. Sure, some...

19) If your spouse/SO minimized, lied, or hid things from you how would you feel about it?

I think it would depend on what it was. Everyone needs a bit of privacy. If it was something important,...

13) Do you think your CDing makes you less likely to trust your SO enough to let her in, to be intimate and close with her? What can we GGs do to help with that?
To be honest, I think my CDing has...

Personally, I enjoy looking good as a man or a woman. I rarely get the opportunity wear a suit or tie, but I do enjoy it from time to time, and I certainly appreciate more casual men's fashion.
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And they say that attention spans are getting shorter . . .

I'll agree that there are times when a little restraint is in order. Many of the regulars here have noted the folly of continually...

It's been a while since I posted, but I just had to share my experience telling my girlfriend about my crossdressing. We haven’t been going out for very long, but I decided a long time ago that...