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Hi Michelle,

I can totally relate to this! That's why I do it. I don't try to pass, rather I wear what I like as long as it looks good.



This is true, but I found it is also true to some...

Probably the most memorable I got was "We are going to start a fan club!". Well, some women do send me lengthy fan mails occasionally after I showed up at a party in drag.

In my experience it varies from occasion to occasion. I see dresses when people go out in town and in warm weather. Older women seem to wear dresses more often. I remember being at a breakfast after...

Dating sites suck and lead people to dismiss potential mates all too easily for shallow reasons. Meet people in real life instead, which would be my advice for anyone who wants to meet a potential...

I find your stories most depressing. I'd like to add my own 2p in the hope of encouraging someone. I discovered that, If I want to meet women, I go to parties in a super stylish flamboyant sexy...

Wow, great to see so many reactions! So, it seems most of you have had positive feedback from women, although the general theme is that there's usually no romantic relationship in it for you, with...

Hi all, thanks for sharing your thoughts, keep em coming! In my case some women definitely want more than just fool around for a night, and want to keep in touch. I can't tell you in every case...

I've been crossdressing in public on a number of occasions now, and I've been baffled by the positive female attention I've been getting. And guess what, I just found out that other CD/TG think...

I think a comparison of CD with addiction is harmful. It leads people to believe it can and should be "cured". I believe we have ample evidence to show it cannot be cured.

Further, I consider my...

A very interesting point you're making, Becky. I've often wondered about this myself. In our culture, men look drab compared to women (at least, the women that care about looking nice), although...

Society can be so judgmental without actually considering the human beings involved. We all know that here. It doesn't sound like you are harming anyone! Age is just a number. Does being 70 make...

I can relate to the feeling of being ignored when you want to be seen. In big cities, people seem to be desensitized and not open to interactions, at least in the streets. Go to a more intimate...

Since I've been crossdressing I've also experimented with exaggerated masculine styles (as far as that's possible with my tall but slender build). There I discovered something surprising, namely...

Oh, don't get me started on how often I chickened out. Dressing up, and thinking yes I want to be seen like this, then not going outside. Doesn't help that I don't pass. My worst fear is running...

I sometimes have the urge to look fem when at work. I sometimes pop off to the toilet with a pair of earrings, and fantasize I don't take them off when going out, or apply some subliminal...

Thanks again for your responses! I much appreciate your insights. Most of you say that women are more accepting than men. I half expected some to say it's the other way round. I also see a lot of...

For me, CD started at 40, a little over 2 years ago. I have had an irresistible urge to do it ever since. It feels like I'm catching up with something I've been missing out on. There does not seem...

I would like to add my 2p. What you describe is that your wife tells you not to borrow her clothes, but she does borrow yours without you agreeing that she can. That does sound like a double...

Great to get so much feedback on this! As to why women are generally more accepting, my guess is that it is a world they are familiar with. For me, the concept of wearing clothes made for women was...

I've been dressing in public quite a few times. Most of the times this is as a guy with female elements, sometimes fully female (using makeup, trying to cover my beard shadow, but not passing). I...