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    1) is there anything you could tell your younger...

    1) is there anything you could tell your younger cd self what would that be? lots, but I don't think I would have believed it

    2) What is your greatest cd goal you have reached? En-femme and NOT...
  2. Thread: Getting older

    by SaraLin
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    I'm 66. I won't say that my desire has changed...

    I'm 66.

    I won't say that my desire has changed all that much. I will say that I am not pursuing it as strongly as before. This is for several reasons.

    I'm getting older and my overall drive...
  3. Um -ReineD, It seems like you're putting words...

    Um -ReineD, It seems like you're putting words into other people's mouths here...

    I had a bunch of other stuff here that belongs in another thread - sorry about that. I'm moving it now...
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    I vote for nature over nurture. I had only a...

    I vote for nature over nurture.

    I had only a few times where it was OK for me to dress up (halloween once, overnight at grandparents', one cub scouts play). Other than that, I was always made...
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    put me in the nature side. It's always been...

    put me in the nature side.
    It's always been there - as far back as I can remember.
    a few "events" in my young life may have served to activate or reinforce my tendencies, but it seems like I...
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    I can only IMAGINE where I would go, since there...

    I can only IMAGINE where I would go, since there are plenty of restrictions in my life - and yes, I'm sure some of them are self-imposed.

    IF I could overcome my self-doubts and fears, and I had:
    ...
  7. Well, I think I'm still just me. BUT People...

    Well, I think I'm still just me.

    BUT

    People who know me in both modes say that I change. I'm told my voice gets softer, I move differently, and a I'm happier person.

    Um, OK. Who am I to...
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    I have to add my two thoughts... you said: I've...

    I have to add my two thoughts...
    you said: I've spoken with her on the phone so she's not a "catfish"
    I say: Um - talking to someone on the phone doesn't mean the AREN'T a catfish, (but it doesn't...
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    Star, I only have a couple thoughts I'd like to...

    Star, I only have a couple thoughts I'd like to add.

    You say you're in counselling. I'm assuming that your wife knows this - but do the two of you ever discuss what's talked about in these...
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    First marriage failed because I left. The...

    First marriage failed because I left. The dressing was an issue that cropped up AFTER we had been married a while. She struggled, but appeared to accept it. Till one day, while shopping for me, she...
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    When it comes to finding my place on the gender...

    When it comes to finding my place on the gender spectrum, I keep thinking of one of those gadgets they sell in the gift shops.
    It's a pendulum that has a magnet on the bottom. In the middle of...
  12. Thread: How many years

    by SaraLin
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    as far back as I can remember. So, 60+ years.

    as far back as I can remember. So, 60+ years.
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    H-m-m-m The top three results I got were: 1. a...

    H-m-m-m
    The top three results I got were:
    1. a laxative.
    2. a healthcare company
    3. a horse.
    Further down the list is an article about a woman who poisoned her baby.

    Maybe I should go back...
  14. I just want to comment on one thing you said. ...

    I just want to comment on one thing you said.

    You wrote:
    I really am like: my dear father, can you pleeease tell me why you belittle my expression forms, when you damn well know how sad it is...
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    I feel I'm a bit more -um- trans, but here are my...

    I feel I'm a bit more -um- trans, but here are my answers anyway...

    1)Have you ever told anyone you were a Crossdresser? Yes. My friends and family know.
    2) Have you every shown anyone your...
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    Initially, I went by Amy, but it just didn't seem...

    Initially, I went by Amy, but it just didn't seem to fit quite right.

    Back when I was working on transition, I figured I'd better pick a "real" name. I thought a while and decided to honor our...
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    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse? N/A I...

    1) Do you regret not telling your spouse? N/A I told her while we were still dating and we agreed on boundaries.

    2) What regrets do you have if any? Not negotiating for more?

    3) Do you think...
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    I'm not sure. I think that for me, it was sort...

    I'm not sure. I think that for me, it was sort of the other way around. I started young, and I feel that my empathy with girls led me to wanting to dress like them.
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    Ahh family - the stories we could tell. My...

    Ahh family - the stories we could tell.

    My father bailed on the family when I was around 12. My sister and I were so glad that he left, we threw a little party.
    I swore to myself that I when I...
  20. Thread: Armed Forces

    by SaraLin
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    Army. - 72-76. I did it to avoid the risk of...

    Army. - 72-76.
    I did it to avoid the risk of getting drafted and being sent into combat (not something I could have handled.)
    I also did it to get training in career skills.
    I don't regret it. I...
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    To me, it they were JUST clothes, then I probably...

    To me, it they were JUST clothes, then I probably wouldn't be wearing them.

    "just clothes" are to keep me covered, to keep me warm, and to be socially acceptable (naked isn't cool - right?)
    "just...
  22. I'd have to recite my list of "too's" Too tall...

    I'd have to recite my list of "too's"

    Too tall
    Too heavy
    Too big adam's apple
    Too big hands
    Too masculine looking face.
    Too little up top
    Too much down below
    Too much need for "camouflage".
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    No. But - I gotta talk to SOMEone who...

    No.
    But - I gotta talk to SOMEone who understands.
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    1. nerdy computer geek. Lower class, Shy to the...

    1. nerdy computer geek. Lower class, Shy to the point of invisibility.
    2. End of senior year found a GF - for a while.
    3. Didn't join teams. OR go to proms, or ANY non-classroom activities.
    4.Had...
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    Unless they are in a style that so over-the-top...

    Unless they are in a style that so over-the-top flamboyant that people think to themselves "that looks like something from a drag show", I doubt anyone gives it a second thought.
    I suppose another...
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