Had to go to physio to address a long standing sports injury on my leg. I shave. The young female massage therapist was a co-op from a local university and cute as a button. She kept commenting on my...
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Had to go to physio to address a long standing sports injury on my leg. I shave. The young female massage therapist was a co-op from a local university and cute as a button. She kept commenting on my...
The further north in the Americas you go, the less likely you are to find a womanless pageant. At least that's what I've found. Weird eh?
I've been told "you're such a girl" more than I can remember. I guess my observations and reactions aren't always what people think as "manly". Personally I don't know what they're talking about but...
For me, I don't think I really care about what others think anymore. I haven't outed myself or gone out publicly, but I've been living under suspicion for some time and simply got used to the...
There is a vast disconnect between the euphoria of how I feel and how I actually look. As long as my feeling pretty overpowers my reflection in the mirror, I'm OK. When it doesn't, I too want to rip...
Some stare, but don't say much. A guy I work with sings the "...we wear short shorts..." tune. You get used to it. I don't have to make excuses, I just tell the few that ask that I think hairy legs...
You will go as far as you let it so your ultimate goal keeps moving. Seems once people achieve what they want, a "more involved" desire arises and becomes your next objective.
Keeping your CDing a secret is OK. Many of us do it for a variety of reasons with fear being number one. Infidelity is a crappy thing and needlessly exposes your unsuspecting wife to risks both...
It's very unlikely ANY of them will have the audacity to confront you so don't expect them to be chasing you out of town any time soon. Yes, for now they will whisper about you behind your back. It...
3 years Canadian Armoured corps. Never thought about dressing then.
Just as I thought. Many of us "guys" have typical trade jobs and get all sorts of injuries normally associated with our career paths. It sucks since it's a real tell tale sign of what we do for a...
1) I rarely dress. Only when my SO seems tolerant do I even bother.
2) I treat her the same. I don't want to push the envelope too much by behaving femme.
3) Not a DADT situation.
4) I look for...
Do you work in an environment where you get minor injuries that affect your femme appearance? How about hobbies that do it?
My ONLY asset are my legs and they now have more bruises on them than I...
Hairless IS better. I haven't had to replace my deodorant stick for over 7 months now. The dry air in the winter causing static cling of leg hair....yuck! I see some hairy dudes out there and think...
Blue collar towns like mine don't take kindly to the plunging necklines and pink tops of our community. Getting beat up is not unheard of in these parts. The smaller the town, the more likely it is...
I look like the ugly stepsister. Minus the step.
Why do so many of us feel guilty when we keep it a secret? Much of the anxiety we feel is due to the fact we hide our true nature.
Lie? Maybe.
Deception? Likely.
Omission of truth? Absolutely....
After reading everyone's replies... huh... Am I the only one who had a less than satisfying experience there? I felt like a wannabe. Staff was helpful, but Janet was not very friendly. Guess I got...
Wow, how to accept yourself. There is no easy answer. I can relate to your feelings of panic and anxiety as I was hounded by those feelings for a long time. If you want to get over those feelings you...
It's likely Traps would be a more common phenomenon if all of us were as passable as they are. We're quick to jump on them, but they are under the TG umbrella like the rest of us. Transgendered and...
It had been my experience (with women that is) that they will chew on the issue at hand until they've come up with an attack plan. Once she's got what she wants to say all figured out, (and she's...
I too am from Southern Ontario. I told my GP about the anxiety I feel associated with my CDing, and he told me he had no experience with it. He referred me to two therapists he worked with and...
Go to management ONLY if there is any harassment involved (and I highly recommend that). After being harassed horribly for some time I finally got the courage to go to management and tell them a...
Most of us are just too skittish to want to talk CD in public. Just look into any "how to shop" thread and you'll see that most of us try our darndest to not be seen or noticed. Yeah I see it now,...
Other than the stresses of daily family life there are no marital issues, and it's certainly not menopause. "Doormat" may have hit it on the head. She's been placating me until now and the truth...