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  1. To some of us it seems sensible to go to secluded...

    To some of us it seems sensible to go to secluded places to be out when we are not ready to go public. That seems sensible but it really is not. Secluded places is where some people that are up to no...
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    A good description of me as well, Julie. It seems...

    A good description of me as well, Julie. It seems to me that you have found your heart and soul and the genuine you. I feel much the same way, but before 2013 it was a battle full of shame and fear....
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    I agree with the others. She is just very...

    I agree with the others. She is just very perceptive and loves to explore new ideas - 8 year olds are very much that way. They often surprise us with how much they do know about the diversity in this...
  4. Your experience reminded me of a time long, long...

    Your experience reminded me of a time long, long ago when I was about 12. I was preparing a cake to bake and my uncle (5 years younger than me - long story) was over and was watching me mix things...
  5. Thread: In denial!

    by GretchenM
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    We are all different, Doc. It is not one size...

    We are all different, Doc. It is not one size fits all.

    On top of that I am kind of offended by your post. I have the desire but I have no ability to have sex anymore, thanks to prostate cancer...
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    Kim's advice regarding conflating fantasy and...

    Kim's advice regarding conflating fantasy and reality is very good and wise. It is really easy to mix gender and sex in your mind and then find out the connection is not at all what you thought was...
  7. Thread: Fetish

    by GretchenM
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    It is common for there to be a sexual element in...

    It is common for there to be a sexual element in many CD's and TG's early in their "career" of being and expressing their identity. But, as Helen says, it usually does not last more than a few years...
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    Interesting perspective and quite true in many...

    Interesting perspective and quite true in many regards. Maybe a good lesson in economics. Sometimes the most rewarding things are free or almost so. Now if those of us who are not so brave can mix...
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    Charlotte, sounds like you had it quite a bit...

    Charlotte, sounds like you had it quite a bit rougher than most of us. And I can relate to what you are saying. But I don't actually have regrets; it is just that the reality back in my preteen years...
  10. Robbiegirl, I think your assumptions are probably...

    Robbiegirl, I think your assumptions are probably correct in general. But my wife and I are in our mid 70's and retired and dressing up fancy is not really something that we do except on really...
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    Back when I was in high school (very early 60's)...

    Back when I was in high school (very early 60's) and I skied every weekend it was common knowledge that panty hose helped keep your legs warm and were less bulky than long underwear. When I was...
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    Wonderful list. I think you did very well in...

    Wonderful list. I think you did very well in describing how it works. Virtually nothing I would change and with a few exceptions it would apply to FTM as well as MTF. The main point I got from it is...
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    I wear panties sometimes. Bending over can be...

    I wear panties sometimes. Bending over can be hazardous and is the most likely time someone will see. Personally, I don't care if someone sees. Of course, my wife knows and does not object.

    In my...
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    In my personal opinion, if your primary gender...

    In my personal opinion, if your primary gender expression is women's jeans and a mildly feminine top and your wife knows and doesn't want to talk about it then all is well, FOR NOW. But I am...
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    I fully agree on shoes. I have found round toe to...

    I fully agree on shoes. I have found round toe to fit much better because they don't pinch your toes. Plus finding 12 1/2 women's is really hard; it usually goes from 12 to 13. Thirteen is too loose...
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    If you get your ears pierced don't worry about...

    If you get your ears pierced don't worry about the kids. If they have been in school for a few years, they probably know more about gender expression and variance than you do. "Earrings? Cool Dad!"...
  17. Yep, it is all about social standards and...

    Yep, it is all about social standards and expectations. Going against the standards rocks the boat and it might flip over and we will all drown. It can really be that rigid and at times in history it...
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    You are quite correct about society viewing women...

    You are quite correct about society viewing women as lesser. Our society has been that way for hundreds of years, even at least a few thousand years. But that is not the case everywhere. There are in...
  19. I hear you April. I have wondered if my parents...

    I hear you April. I have wondered if my parents ever figured out why the women's section suffered the most wear and tear. They probably did and thought it was just the curiosity of a young boy. My,...
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    You look great. And congrats on the move. I...

    You look great. And congrats on the move. I suspect back when we lived in caves there wasn't so much paperwork to do. Have we actually progressed or not?
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    My favorites were my mother's slips and lipstick....

    My favorites were my mother's slips and lipstick. The slips felt heavenly when I put them on. They triggered, ahem, a pleasant and strong response, to put it in G-rated terms. Lipstick did too. But...
  22. Thread: Watchmaker

    by GretchenM
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    Welcome to the forum. There are some...

    Welcome to the forum.

    There are some excellent theories of how and why all this happens and some are very credible with piles of evidence to support them. Unfortunately, none of them are easy to...
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    When we got married there were only momentary...

    When we got married there were only momentary hints of what had dominated my younger life. I was deeply embroiled in graduate school and had far too much to do in my life than to be concerned about...
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    Christie, thank you for sharing your thoughts and...

    Christie, thank you for sharing your thoughts and the pattern of your interaction between two sides in a chimera situation. That is a very difficult condition to have. In a support group I was in...
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    Personally, I do not distinguish between...

    Personally, I do not distinguish between transgender and crossdresser in terms of the psychological traits and characteristics. Basically, transgender is a behavior where a person self identifies,...
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