Shelly
It almost seems as if those who have not really ventured out have a misperception of how people will interact with a CD.
I have been out many times, too many to count. No one has ever...
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Shelly
It almost seems as if those who have not really ventured out have a misperception of how people will interact with a CD.
I have been out many times, too many to count. No one has ever...
My thoughts,
No need to risk existing friends that you have a long relationship with, just make some new friends.
That is one reason I go to LGBT bars and clubs. Most everyone is accepting and...
Sabrihal,
Lots of good responses already, but I will add my thoughts. Like Maria said, it is a roll of the dice to tell someone after you start dating or after marriage. Yes some get lucky , but...
I never really got comfortable with the idea of being a crossdresser until I got out and met people in social settings. It becomes a lot easier to be self accepting once you meet people more...
The first time I tried wearing a dress in front of my wife was scarier than wearing lingerie into a bar in a high crime area, and the outcome was a lot worse as well. I will not be poking the bear...
Hmm interesting. I guess that blows the theory that people will not recognize us when we dress up.
No point in worrying about that which you can not change. My guess, if it was no big deal to...
It is complicated for many of us. We are so varied, I do not know that any of us can say what is right for you.
I suspect many of us have pondered this question. If I am not tran, why am I so...
Hip and butt pads. forms, and waist slimmers like a corset do wonders for fooling the eye., but you did get me thinking. I have not actually weighed myself will all of that attire on, and I shudder...
I used to suntan in women?s thongs at the beach, but I had to stop mostly because over time the sun has taken its toll on my skin. No one ever really seemed to take notice although I only went to...
Danni,
Correct me if I am wrong please, but from what I read it sounds as if you have not ventured out in the wild crossdressed, and you only dress up at home. Unless you plan to be in public...
Hi Di,
Lump me into the group who consider it more than a hobby but less than a lifestyle.
There are certainly elements which resemble a hobby. I tend to get carried away with shopping for...
Static is not much a problem where I live due to high humidity, but the factors involved are not enough to really be a good give away. When I was in college in Boston years ago, I remember holding...
Sometimes I am not sure what drives me. I know I like the attention. I love meeting new people and the opportunity to talk with others about my crossdressing habit.
It seems as if just about...
There are many things that can give us away. I once spotted 2 CDs at a club and could only see them from behind initially. They were far too tall and had no hips.
I have come to realize you can...
Interesting. She seems tolerant to some degree which is nice, although it seems as if she has some lines for you to not cross. It is better than what I have which is zero tolerance and I do mean...
Amy,
It is kind of interesting that it seems your wife is not the one reluctant to be seen in public but you. Do you think you can give in if she insists on dragging you out somewhere as if...
Back in 2017 I was dressing in my hotel room more and more when traveling for work. Eventually I got bitten by the bug of wanting to go out and to be seen. For a number of months, I had this tug of...
Amy,
If I had to guess, it seems to me your situation is fairly rare. I am sure many here would love being in your shoes.
Sandi
Gee that is a lot to go through. I am happy to see you are on the mend though and back with us.
Sandi
Considering I have gone into stores wearing skimpy clubbing attire like only a bra, corset, mini skirt, and heels, I would say you can get away wearing whatever you want most of the time. The key...
I think my record number of outings is 5 out of 8 days in a row, and it was mostly at night technically speaking. It was a lot of fun and I would do it again, but I found it quite exhausting. At...
Good for you. Try to relax and enjoy the moment.
Sandi
Ha , moral to the story is to always have a cover story.
Finding shoes etc would not necessarily raise any questions, but finding wigs and breast forms is another story.
But I sense your pain.
Sandi
Sometimes it is just a matter of timing things right. I have to do this often. Hotels are generally available for checkin at 2 to 3 PM and check out at 11 AM or noon. You just have to work out...