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This is EXACTLY the way I feel too

Can honestly say its something I would welcome the opportunity.

ABSOLUTELY!!!!! In a split second. And - I find myself getting more and more frustrated for not having done anything about it - yet. Life managed to get in the way, as it seems to happen to a lot...

Same Here -
WITH him - AS her

Why not a second time? Just try to think about what has brought you there.

If it still feels right, then you aren't using him - you're just where you need to be.

Wish I could find myself in...

oh yeah!!

my only regret is that i didn't do it 30 years ago

that the more I wish I could have a sighting (along with the ensuing greeting, hello and introduction), the less likely it'll ever happen. Maybe I should stop trying and then it will actually...

For now, I find myself more and more intrigued by the thought of making love to a man, whether dressed or not - being dressed would be the the icing on the cake. In the future I am ultimately...

I'm in the same boat as you - and it's not getting any better. She hates it and would never want any part of it.

There is always plenty of helpful advice and great support here.

In 2 seconds flat.

What are we waiting for?

On both of my hands the index finger is longer than the ring finger, with the greatest difference being on my left hand.

I think it's just a matter of time before I find myself in the same situation. She doesn't seem to want to address the issue - other than just getting angry, distant and resentful. I can't say I...

so fast it would make my head spin

That's what stopping me from transitioning - the stigma that somehow it's "wrong'

It's the same for me - except that I'm not happy or content yet. Gotta take the next step.

Nowhere is more like it. She hates the idea, never mind my telling her that I would like to consider transitioning at the first opportunity. She insisted that I get counseling, which I did. A...

I'm not exactly sure where I'm going to end up myself. My situation is much like yours. Like being stuck between a rock and a hard place - with no where to turn. I don't think we make ourselves...

Every day I find myself getting closer and closer to taking that big step. It's not if anymore - it's just a matter of when.

I just sent you a PM.

But you are definitely not alone. My wife finally just learned about my "secret" and we are trying to work it out - if it's possible. I hope to give it my best shot.

I...

You are all so right - It's going to be a very long road to travel on this one. She is struggling with the whole notion of finding out and where things might lead. Thanks for all the input - even...

I thought about it a little and - yeah, the way I first worded it came out wrong. For that I deserved some criticism.

My marriage and relationship with my wife are definitely my top priorities,...

You're 100% right - I didn't mean it the way it sounded.

Thanks for pointing that out.

My wife got a little curious and found me out. I'm glad she did.

I was always too chicken to flat-out tell her, so it came out this way.

Like Lucy, I had "some splainin' to do" - which I did. ...

Careless? Not exactly sure. She was also curious and went looking. But I'm glad it's finally out. It's like a weight off my shoulders. Gonna have to wait and see where this goes from here.

I think this is the absolute best advice anyone has given you so far.