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My wife is great to me but, she has qualities all over the lower numbered half of the spectrum....

A big congratulations to you and your fiancé! You are so inspirational to so many of us.

So happy for you.
-E

Hey Mel!

The driving gets easier to do. Now, if only I could get the guts to go somewhere besides just drive!

Great job Mel. You look great in the car.

-Erika

Bobbi,
That was a very respectful way to handle your reveal and a beautiful thing for them to say. I'm so proud of you for the way you conducted this reveal. It is so much better to offer respect...

Out of respect for her, I would ask if she would be alright if you could dress. She'll probably not protest but it is also a good way to prepare her for an introduction to Bobbi. I have been...

Short answer: No but I've contemplated it.

Long answer: I have only heard of people who are in full time transition to purge their male clothes like this but I've wondered if there had been an...

I wonder if Pamela is right. That "...uncomfortable pause between..." you may have been her realization. She may not want to ask because 1)she may fear the answer or 2) she may not wish to offend...

It's interesting you've mentioned this. I have been dabbling with this a bit myself. Honestly, I'd love to go out fully dressed all the time but I'm not convincing. It feels right to me but the...

My mother always, always wanted boys and she had three. Back the clock up, when my mother was pregnant with my older brother her sister in law was pregnant too. They were discussing names and my...

Wow. Sounds like a great night of learning about yourself and where you stand. It must have been great to let your pent up energies out with another person.

Curious, the conversation at the bar,...

Hi Sandie,

I'm so sorry you've been met with such negativity. I've thought and commented on similar posts. Yes, if we are dressed in public we all want to be treated as the gender we presenting in...

Wow! Now, I've been dressing since a very young age and I had much the same issue for years. I commend your creativity. This is ingenious. As stated by others, I would be most nervous not about...

I'm with Teresa on this one. I would add a sub section or another section for "Tolerates." My wife is very supportive and will say she fully supports me but I consider it that she "tolerates" my...

Piora,

I would not consider it a missed opportunity. Rather, a chance to have done your research. That research was conducted here. Now, you are armed with reassurances that you entering into the...

True, maybe "drawing attention" is not my best choice of words.

Maybe she was receiving the wrong signals from you is a better way. For example, I people watch...a lot. If I catch a man's eye as...

OMG! I wish there were a LIKE Button on this message board! Isha, this was a great example of how much men and women are alike but hate to admit it. I've done similar but I was always met with a...

Hey Mechamoose!

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I have a purse/backpack ("handbag") that I've carried in male mode for the last few weeks of winter this year, loved it. I found it too bulky for summer but I might give it...

Jennifer,

I did the same thing this Spring. I was finally able to move many of my things to another closet because we couldn't put any clothes away. There were: over 100 tops, all colors and...

I think this line from Pam says it best. The term of the 60s and 70s is a derogatory term for males who didn't fit into a stereotypical male mold or did not perform as brave. However, ther term has...

Pam and Welshgirl,

As I have said before in posts and in PMs, you two are amazing and perfect for eachother. You both are beautiful examples of how a spouse should each give and receive support...

Hi Pam,

Thanks for sharing. I've been away from the site for a while mostly because my day-to-day life has intruded into the things I wish to do. So, I may not know the exact threads you are...

Kate,

I have but not that devastating.

I did the exact same thing. I went to show a picture to a work colleague and accidentally flipped the the screen to the next photo. It was a black and...

Ms. Greenie is right, you won't know her tolerance level until you ask. Even people in DADT relationships needed at one time to ask where the limits are. Besides, the limits may move from time to...

That is so sweet and her acceptance is a beautiful thing. CDing is a tough thing for a GG SO to deal with. She is off to a great start with your exploration of yourself.

Now, take it slow in your...

I have to say Isha, I am impressed with your leaders and your own leadership. This is an astounding improvement for you and others in your ranks. I think your sincerity about wishing to keep it...