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    Yeppers. Him: large and in charge. A Military...

    Yeppers.

    Him: large and in charge. A Military man with unquestioned authority. The same in social circles and family life. Not an overbearing dictator by any means, but no one, and I mean no one...
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    Sure it did, the first time we had a crisis. She...

    Sure it did, the first time we had a crisis. She was going to leave me because of being unable to deal with my ptsd. CDing saved my marriage from that crisis.

    Look at it this way: If you are...
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    We were married for 14 years. We were from...

    We were married for 14 years. We were from Northern California. I got a job offer on the East Coast. We moved, the wife and I, as well as our four kids.

    On the first day in the new city my...
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    When my wifes attitude changed.

    The thread about CDing and marriages got me thinking about my ex wife and how our lives changed.

    When I met her; I was in law enforcement. I was a young detective. I had already done my first...
  5. I have to agree with most everyone. I think...

    I have to agree with most everyone.

    I think that in some rare cases it is the cause of a divorce, where the marriage was strong to begin with. I've know a few cases where the wife had a momentary...
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    Lets start with the kids. They are way more...

    Lets start with the kids. They are way more resilient than you can imagine. Most couple just don't let do "it' when the kids are around. If there are always womens clothes in your room and closet,...
  7. I wanted to ad that when I saw the original post,...

    I wanted to ad that when I saw the original post, I thought it a very natural question. Not just from my perspective but I know drag queens who have back stories for their "characters". I know a few...
  8. Yes, sort of. I'm guessing that the difference is...

    Yes, sort of. I'm guessing that the difference is between those whose crossdressing is a facet of their personality vis-a-vis those of us who are more transgendered.

    I've never thought of myself...
  9. Sure, there are. I have been in relationships...

    Sure, there are. I have been in relationships with several.

    However; I think there are several factors involved. The most important is your social circle.

    What I mean is this; In my young...
  10. Suzy, let her read this:...

    Suzy, let her read this: https://www.webmd.com/brain/features/how-male-female-brains-differ#1

    Or this: https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html

    and...
  11. I'm a woman. I had to learn to be a boy to make...

    I'm a woman. I had to learn to be a boy to make my father and grandfathers happy. I did a pretty good job of it too. I wouldn't say I have a disassociated personality. I do though have two distinct...
  12. Thread: Veterans

    by Michellebej
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    My understanding, and it makes a lot of sense, is...

    My understanding, and it makes a lot of sense, is that when the young CD is in the denial stage; it is very common to gravitate towards more masculine fields. The literature that I have seen shows a...
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    I spent twelve years, in total, as an...

    I spent twelve years, in total, as an interviewer. Or what used to be called an interrogator. Both in a law enforcement setting and a military one. I have interviewed women from North, South and...
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    When I first started out my public answer was...

    When I first started out my public answer was always "NO". No matter how I felt inside. There was no way I would own up to it, especially on a public forum such as this. I often wondered what I would...
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    Thank you AllieSF, I think yours was the most...

    Thank you AllieSF, I think yours was the most thoughtful answer I have received. I appreciate it.

    I wonder if some of this is because of the duality of our nature? I know that a high percentage...
  16. I was....22 or 23? I had a girlfriend who was...

    I was....22 or 23?

    I had a girlfriend who was very open and accepting and willing to try just about anything.

    I'm from the San Francisco Bay Area and we used to have this event called the...
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    Micki, I don't think you get it. I'm not...

    Micki, I don't think you get it. I'm not questioning that these things happen. I've read about it too many times to think it a false narrative. I've worked as a criminal interviewer. I'm very...
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    GG's in your life and acceptance

    I've been at this for years and years and I've spent plenty of time on forums like these and in some of the older chat rooms.

    One of the constants I see is the negative aspects of coming out to...
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    Good for you! That first time is a killer!...

    Good for you! That first time is a killer! Hopefully this will be the first of many times out and about!
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    Tall girls and some fun!

    I was reading a thread about minor incidents and saw a few remarks about being tall.

    Well, I'm not exactly tall. I'm 5-10 ( in the morning and 5-9 in the evening!), but I am definitely on the tall...
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    I think the one that comes to mind is almost in...

    I think the one that comes to mind is almost in the category of a major incident, but....not quite! I was in Lane Bryants looking at the clothes in drab and just owned it when the SA ask me if were...
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    Not your everyday Mother-Daughter tale

    My oldest child is Stephanie.

    A bit of background. A few months before we were to marry, my wife to be found herself with child. She decided she wanted an abortion as it would seriously screw up...
  23. Thread: Why boobs?

    by Michellebej
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    For me it is my self image. When I close my eyes...

    For me it is my self image. When I close my eyes I don't see a man, I see a woman.

    That woman shares commonality with her four genetic sisters. All of whom are big breasted. The irony is that...
  24. If Single, is your bedroom "his" or "hers"?

    I say Single because a married person's room can be all "hers" with no fuss.

    When my Wife left me, it was not really supposed to be forever. Therefore she left most of her clothes behind.

    My...
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    Carla, I get what you are saying but, really,...

    Carla, I get what you are saying but, really, there is a tremendous variation within our ranks.

    In an oversimplification we break down into three groups. "Men in a dress"; "Women in the body of a...
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