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For me it is a time defined hobby event, that I wish was a lifestyle one. I have a very non-tolerant wife who violently opposes my other side but the need is overpowering even this fierce opposition!

I think I would like to convey the same as many others have said, it is a born instinct and that in the majority most are normally hetrosexual in behaviour, and that they are not freaks of nature

The temptation is or must be enormous to go over and introduce yourself for sure, but as Sterling12 say's if I were the one dressed I would freak out myself, so I think the experience was very...

Gag Nabbit beaten to the punchline, in the UK we have an upsurge of BAMBI's or Born Again Middle-age Biker Idiots, the Police of whom I have a few friends there-in call them all Organ Doners, and...

I think your selling yourself a bit short on this, the psychology of the situation is telling me something else, I think your friend feels marginalised and on the edge of her desired society and...

Agreed!

Stand up guy indeed

Wigs! these can cause me considerable embarassment buying them

Hmmm,,,,,,, not sure I agree with that sentiment either, but then that disagreement would be from my own perspective alone. For my last big company I wore suits daily and behaved in a corporate...

There are quite a few professions that enable an amount of home based work, Sales, telesales, accounting, business as advisor or consultant, a lot are flexible depending where the offices are based....

My company is based hundreds of miles away from me, A good 7 hour drive, so it is the only option. I am in interior design so sit at the computer for periods of time working on projects. I then...

I am still in a position of being fully 100% able to compartmentalise my two sides, unsure as to exactly why but I am.

I fid it far easier to become Gillian then become the drab guy than to merge...

I work, at the computer designing, make calls and feel so naughty when I am on the phone to my Managing Director, dessed as I do at those times :heehee:

Generally just be me!

Hi Klaire,

I have managed till now to keep my two elements apart, but reading your post has made me question if I can integrate some items into my daily routine I quite like this idea of T-shirts...

Trigger points?

If I see a girl that has a physique similar to mine or face shape (the poor dear!) how she is dressed and made up is a massive trigger a girl dressed as I like or with similar...

Well, how did the internet have an impact on me?

I learned to no longer feel ashamed of being a crossdresser thats for sure. I ahve met online via here some wonderful new friends and they are...

I have shaved my armpits since my early 20's as I find it much more hygenic, less likely to cause odour and looks better, I am quite hairy on arms legs and chest and since last July, I have been...

I'd love to get the courage to meet others too, again at the mid 40's clubbing is not really for me but I would be keen to meet at a sympathetic bar,,,,, sometime,,,,,,when I get my nerve

I can definately agree with you, my desires had diminished after our daughter came along anyway, but since I started working from home and dressing several times a week my desire has all but gone.
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Wow you look so pretty in those pictures, good for you on your courage, I think it would be the only time of day I would dare to venture from back garden to front or car!

That must have been so upsetting for you it really must! but, in a small way you did bring it on by first hiding your gender then admitting to it, a real lesson learned if you start something finish...

Oh yeh, with you every bity of that!!! good solid covert advice

Hey Christina,

I am with you 100% but with a slight twist, I made an embargo on Jeans! I will allow myself on very rare occasion to wear very feminine cut trousers soft, well cut and very fabric...

Hi Zoe,

This is indeed a massive step and I wish you every happiness as it will be a long journey to get to who you are. If I were in your position right now I would be doing so much soul...

I too evolved in this sort of manner, going from experimenting to trying to look ****ty, but in general I have always striven to look as convincing as possible and were it not for my ugly mug, I...

Hi Zoe,

That sounds like real progress, I truly wish you well and every happiness, I have missed your updates but how did you get on with Mum? last time I read your news you still hadn't told...