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Your post really hit home for me. I am in a very similar situation. I have never come out to my wife at all and the reason is because of the disgust and contempt she has when issues of gender and...

Public. When I first started going out en femme it was always private (my first experience was driving in my car...that had tinted windows...at night...LOL).

Now I prefer to go out in public with...

Ditto

And Ditto.

If this magic pill had been offered to me years ago, before I met my wife, before I became a father, I would have taken it in a heartbeat. There are still times that I wrestle...

My dressing has evolved along very similar to paths to some of the other ladies.

I recently described in another thread when I acquired my first women's clothing at around age 15 (before then I...

CandiFLA's videos that Senneca posted the link to are excellent. There is also a couple videos by a guy who isn't transgendered but specializes in imitating other people (and he claims anyone can do...

1. Accept Yourself for who you are...Check
2. Open up to sombody you know personally, online or face to face...Not Done
3. Purchase an item of female clothing...Check (been doing it by mail...

Good afternoon Ladies!

I haven't visited here for a long time. My oldest will be starting school this fall so other priorities have been taking my time. However today I felt compelled to post,...

I'll try and give my 2 cents about your question.

My advice to not be the center of attention is to try and have everything about you be feminine. Not just your clothes, accessories and makup, but...

Well, the short answer is no, the long answer is... complicated

I am definately a lot braver now when I am en femme than I used to be. I relish opportunities to go out in public en femme and have...

Ditto!

I always tuck and I always tape. It makes me feel more feminine to not have anything moving around down there. Plus, I am one of those rare lucky ones where I didn't have to learn to do it,...

A single pair of beige panties (I started off boring :) )

Most nervous would easily be the very first time I ever went en femme.

It was 9 o'clock at night, pitch black, late fall and I went for a drive (I never got out of my car), but I was absolutely...

Non-conformist? Perhaps. I would say that I definately have beliefs, hobbies, and activities, though safe and sane are not the typical things most men do (and I mean in addition to crossdressing)....

Thank you for all the suggestions and personal stories ladies!

I had thought about the gender bag - and plan on having one. Honestly the stories of personal experiences where the driver did his...

I don't know if there really is a turning point, or maybe some people have more than one.

I started trying on my Mom's clothes when I was still in grade school (10 or 11 maybe). When I was going...

I will be out of town in a few weeks and will be going out en femme. This is in a town where I have gone out several times before. I am completely comfortable there.

However, something has been...

When I was much younger (and had long hair) I had this exact same thing happen to me several times. Someone would see me from behind, while I was in drab, and mistake me for a woman.

This always...

So I guess I would have been around 6 or 7. I didn't have any sisters so it was always my mothers clothes. Then in junior high I started experimenting with her makeup. I was never caught and my...

Have you ever asked them how they would have reacted if you told them you were a crossdresser from the start?

I ask this for two reasons, first nothing in my life has ever convinced me that being...

I used to enjoy that a lot, but I don't anymore. When I was younger I was content to just wear a pair of panties and even used to go around in guy mode with a pair on.

Anymore it has to be the...

You didn't mention how long you've been CDing, but since you said "since I started" I'm assuming it was relatively recently.

If that is the case, I'd say you are just experiencing the normal (and...

Sexual identity (or preference, whichever term you want to use) is a complicated thing. Psychologists usually say that everyone shifts along the Kinsey scale during their lifetime, some a lot more...

I am in the closet. No one in my family has any idea that I am a cross dresser, not even my wife. I have never done anything CD related in any proximity to my children whatsoever (not even viewing...

I always tuck when I dress, even if I'm just wearing a pair of panties (and am not completely en femme). I've been doing it since I was a kid. I'm one of those lucky guys who can tuck the boys...