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Hi Becca,

You don't say why this has come about now, but I assume you have your reasons for bringing it up with him. What you want to say to him sounds wonderful, though I think you will need the...

Hi Erika,

Where do I start? I think the simplest way to put it is that this has been a journey for me too, with its ups and downs, twists and turns, just like any road. The reality of living...

For me, mostly my clothes are just clothes - functional, practical, attractive (in that order). Every now and then, though, I find one item that I absolutely adore. I put it on and look in the...

Well Pamela, you asked me for an honest answer about the CDing and you got one.

For those who don't know, I am Pamela's SO and I would say that I am up near the far end of the scale as far as...

My gut feeling is to tell them that things have been really bad for you over recent months or years, and tell them just how much it has affected you. Then, tell them that you have found something...

Are you trying to imply that I am not a real woman, Krisi? Trust me, I am - you can ask the other members who I have met socially too, if you don't believe me. It might be a stretch for me to go...

There's only one problem with this - the fabric comes from an end-of-line sundress that we bought for £3 instead of the original £26, and I don't suppose there are any left now! So, I will finish...

Wow, I wish I had eyes that were as big , dark and lovely as yours! (I say that as a GG)

I'm sure you have heard this before, but in the world of makeup when trying to pass, less is more. You...

Hi Taielyn,

I am married to a CDer, who has recently gone from wearing panties under his clothes occasionally to being full time in ladies' clothes (apart from the very few times when he really...

Hi Babbs,

There has been a thread on here recently ('Is this a reasonable question?') that explores the perception among the unknowing that all crossdressers are gay. It sounds to me like your...

Pamela's choice and request
xxx

Today, I have made a large step forward in being comfortable with Pamela being dressed as he wants wherever he wants.

Recently, Pamela has been experimenting with wearing nail varnish, and really...

Oh Donna,

I was just about to write on your other thread about the letter that you wrote to your biker group. Yours was one of two threads that have helped me enormously recently.

My SO is...

Hi Diana,

I am a GG SO of a CDer on this forum. I very much support what Pamela wants to do, although I do have the occasional wobble about things that go too far for what I feel comfortable...

Well, I suppose all limits only exist in the mind of the person setting them. Certainly for me, I have had lots of limits around this Cding, and to be fair they have mostly been ones which looked...

I have been on the other side of this one, as Pamela's SO. The limits that are being pushed are most definitely mine around here.

Gone are the days of Pamela nervously venturing out of the...

Hi there Que-cera-cera girl,

I'm a GG so I will answer this one for myself. My husband (Pamela on this forum) has been underdressing for more than 12 years, and CDing fully for about 2 months. ...

Ok, to turn the question round the other way, from a GG's perspective...

Would any cross dressing guys ever buy clothes that are made to fit them, rather than simply going to the shops and...

Hi Paula,

I have just had a look at the site and I have to say that I am really not convinced about the suits! They look to me like something that someone thought was a good idea, before they...

Both of those things, plus the kind of food that I was eating that would fill me up while I was steadily losing weight!

If Pamela and I could swap diets then we would both be a lot better off! I can eat until I am full to bursting and only take in 1200 - 1300 calories a day, while Pamela would make a beeline for all...

I know that this is slightly off topic for the OP, but I do have an age-related observation. Some people have suggested that younger CDers probably frequent tumblr and other such sites. Others have...

Kimonogirl, if you are not sure about the conversion from men's sizes to ladies, then the usual thing to do is get some cheap, thin fabric that has about the same amount of stretch as the one you...

This is too big a subject for someone who sews to answer in a few short sentences! It all depends on the type of zipper, the type of fabric, whether or not your sewing machine has a zipper foot,...

Look, flirting is fun. I grew up as a girl who didn't have much self confidence, until I had a drink or four inside me and then I turned into one of the biggest flirts imaginable. Flirting is fun,...