Math!
(% population who are transwomen) x (% population who are crossdressers) x (% of transwomen who are attracted to crossdressers) x (% of crossdressers who are attracted to transwomen) x (odds...
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Math!
(% population who are transwomen) x (% population who are crossdressers) x (% of transwomen who are attracted to crossdressers) x (% of crossdressers who are attracted to transwomen) x (odds...
This is it exactly. I recommend it, really helped me.
Hi Gwen, I agree with you. It sounds like your everyday presentation is your authentic self, what more needs to be said?
I really wanted to make a superman reference but it was just too snarky.
I agree with Cheryl T, go with the opposite of your drab look.
You might be asking the wrong crowd :)
Since I am very accepting of a wide variety of gender expression, I see gender expression as a wide spectrum and as a result I wouldn't find the "CD" label...
First I must assume "is that crossdressing?" is asking if MOST OTHER people would perceive it as crossdressing. Because if it is just for oneself, one man could wear women's leggings as a practical...
There is that period of time after she knows you crossdress but you haven’t discussed the full extent of the dressing, or desire to dress, or boundaries. It can be difficult to have this talk if she...
Hi Charlotte, you have to have the difficult conversation, there is no other way to be honest an earn her trust. But before you do that, you need to figure some things out and know your needs so you...
I wonder what things would have been like if from the start my wife was supportive and I could have explored everything early on to learn about myself and what I wanted. Instead it probably looks...
Hi Sabine, I really had to give this some thought. Never tried summoning the Pink Fog, and since I've been in the fog for a few weeks I'm not in a position to experiment :)
But next time I'm out of...
The title of this thread immediately caught my attention. But sadly I don't think this approach would work for me, I don't have gynecomastia. Do you now feel like it is a blessing having this...
I think you describe the level of panic I felt.
For me it's one thing that she knows I crossdress and quite another if she saw all the different items I have. I've been clear with her that I...
My wife draws the line at seeing me in any women's clothing other than panties which I wear 24/7, and I keep them separate from the rest of the wash and wash them myself. There is no way we could...
Panic set in when I saw my bra laying on the bedroom floor where my wife almost certainly saw it. I took a closer look, yes it is exactly the same size, color, style as my bra. Think, think, think,...
If you make up an excuse, then you are perpetuating the idea that it is unacceptable (unless you have a good excuse) for men to shave their legs. This doesn't help your case.
Own it. Just say you...
Does Crossdressing come under a LGBT etc umbrella? That word umbrella is the key, if using Transgender as an umbrella term yes.
hrc.org describes it as an umbrella term covering gender identity...
Calling her out on specific purchases doesn't address the core issue which is reaching a common understanding of how the two of you should budget your money. Best to have a discussion on what your...
I don't think there is any way we could answer that question. I really depends on so many factors we don't have enough information about. Assuming you interviewed in person, dressing as the gender...
Easy, she probably doesn't look that closely. I painted my toenails and it took my wife a week to notice, but I in all fairness I wore socks most of the time so she only had the opportunity before...
Hi Jenniferr,
I agree with Diane P. I'm also in a DADT situation which means you must let her decide if she wants to talk about it. In the mean time RELAX! Instead of constantly worrying if she...
Stay up late after she goes to bed, then do your dressing. This works best if you can go to another part of the house :)
I know this is totally not the same thing, but my employer encourages employees to use a rainbow type background in our virtual meetings for pride month. I'm doing that but none of my coworkers do,...
Hi Rhonda,
My first impression is that...I'm impressed by the amount of self-reflection. Good for you for being honest with yourself.
Was it worth the trouble? I think so if it means you learned...
Last night I dreamt of a SpaceX falcon 9 booster coming in for a landing in front of a tall building, then climbing it like King Kong. Does it get any weirder than that?
Is it strange that while half asleep I hear the dog bark outside my bedroom door and I jump out of bed thinking he needs to go outside only to find he is sound asleep?
Or all the dreams where...