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I don't go public dressed, I don't dress to pass. BUT I've been hit on by gay guys too many times to count, apparently I'm cute to men. My answer is usually to look at the guy up and down and then...

I live in a lousy neighborhood, but we've never had any problems because the neighborhood is afraid of us, both for real and imaginary reasons. Can't go into details here due to rules, but I'm happy...

My authentic self is a mostly good guy who likes/needs to be busy creating and/or fixing things, who loves his family, friends, music, and learning. Oh, and I like to wear women's clothes but I don't...

I had a female friend who, during a conversation about kilts, asked me if I had one. I said yes, plus a couple of skirts. I was sort of disappointed that she wasn't interested in that revelation to...

I just spent a week at our second home, doing carpentry painting and electric, including outside ladder work. My MIL's dementia is now at the point where she doesn't notice what I'm wearing (at least...

Chicago is a dangerous city no matter how you're dressed. Please be aware of your surroundings at all times, especially if you're out alone.

Epilating my legs for about 10 years now. It no longer hurts at all, and I only have to do it about once a month.

I have one friend who tried unsuccessfully to give me shit about it, I finally...

The other day while travelling I wore a hot-pink mens t-shirt that my wife got for me. No visible reactions. I also wore women's jean shorts (as always) and an anklet and toe ring. A skirt would have...

Not trans and didn't know anything about it until reading this thread.
During my googling of the subject I watched and thoroughly enjoyed Kaitlyn Jenner's response to the proclamation.

I was stopped for a U-turn in Illinois in the middle of the night recently. Wasn't really "dressed", but I was wearing a pair of rather short yoga shorts and a women's top for the comfort. He didn't...

I stand corrected, Doc! But it really doesn't change my answer though. As much as I agree with Joannie about the made-up "fashion line" between men and women's clothes, I really don't want to be the...

Well, Doc, it's because you cover yourself completely including your face so no one can really see who you are. I don't wear a mask, or makeup, or a wig, so I look like me no matter what I'm wearing....

^ I'd send you a present, but apparently it now requires a second mortgage to send a package to the UK. Sorry.

My wife usually claims that she doesn't care who finds out, although sometimes it's the opposite. Regardless, I would ask her before coming out to anyone (she'd probably tell me to go for it)

I...

I'm not Irish, or a gal, so I wore a plaid pink miniskirt with a black spaghetti strap tank with male sneakers and pink socks while building a set of outdoor stairs.

My wife and I very rarely buy each other gifts, even christmas or bdays. It has happened a very few times where she bought me a top she thought I'd be cute in, more often she bought herself a dress...

I once saw a young lady wearing a dress that I had been looking at on Amazon, and she looked amazing in it. (I have 3 other dresses from the same collection in different prints and they're my...

I'm not trans, so maybe I don't know what I'm talking about. But I suspect that if you can only cd, not transition, and be perfectly happy, then maybe you're only a cd and not trans. If that's not...

Your father is wise and correct. As to the 50/50 look, I do it all the time. Maybe all the time since I don't bother with makeup, ever. But if your wife doesn't like a look (and this has nothing to...

I'd go drinking with him too, I think we'd get along famously!

I don't "transform", no attempt to make myself look like a woman, but I'll sometimes put on a skirt or top in front of her with no problem. What I find interesting and confusing, I don't like for her...

I'm also glad he gets it

Bea, I completely relate to the "aging hippie" feel. I don't have a beard, but I do have the hair (much of which is grey now) and I don't do any makeup except for the very occasional toenail polish,...

My opinion (not from experience but from putting myself in other peoples' shoes) is this: Go ahead and talk to your best friends about this as you've planned, but be prepared to shelve the topic if...

I can't really consider my CDing a hobby (although I refer to it as such from time to time) or a lifestyle (not really sure what that even means). After reading all these positions on the subject,...