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I'm sure where you live definitely matters. I live in a small conservative northern california town. Most of my friends are tolerant of trans people and treat them with respect in public. In...

Are you into fitness? During the winter I wear leggings/yoga pants to the gym. As long as the pattern isn?t too obviously feminine no one even bats an eye. As a bonus womens leggings are much...

Happens to me almost everyday. This week with the temperature over a 100 there are lots of women walking around here in dresses and skirts. Very distracting to say the least.

My first time out was a little over a year ago. There wasn't any one thing that made me finally do it though. I just decided now was as good a time as any. I went shoe shopping on a weekday morning....

Reine, I know you asked about visual stimuli but I had a thought on audio as well. I work in a large building with a high percentage of young women in it. My office sits off a main corridor that is...

If you're asking the question as if seeing an attractive woman wearing cloths I like as a trigger for my wanting to dress or the pink fog as its called, then I would say yes. Seeing a woman I find...

Lauri, that was weird. Maybe he is a closet CD and wanted to get a better look at your outfit!
Suzanne, thanks for the kind words.

Thanks for encouraging replies. Strangely enough showing id and credit card didn't bother me as much as expected. Maybe it was the demeanor of the employees or just me feeling confident. I do hate...

Hello Ladies, I've been a member here for a while but don't post much due to time constraints and being in the closet. Last week however I had three days of unrestricted Michelle time and wanted to...

I wish I looked that good! Love the look.

Thank you for sharing this sobering story with us. It's a sad but necessary reminder of the dangers we face when out dressed. I wish you well and a speedy recovery.

Lol, funny story. Same thing just happened to me. I took next Friday off using the excuse that I need to work on projects at home. Wife comes home last night all excited because her boss let her take...

I do. When I see a good looking, well dressed woman, I usually feel envy and lust.

I'm an HVAC mechanic by trade which is very male dominated. In fact, I've never seen a female HVAC tech before, although there's bound to be a few out there. I work in a hospital that is something...

I'm guilty of too much shopping too, both in person and online. I tend to window shop mostly but sometimes I can't help myself and end up buying yet another dress or pair of shoes or whatever. My...

I wonder if there's a generation component as well. The younger members grew up with the internet which allowed us to understand we weren't alone and better understand what we were dealing with....

Mine does. I'm incredibly jealous of her collection of heels. She has some great dresses too.

Sometime in my mid 20s I guess. I purged when I got married and didn't dress for several years after. Then the urge came back and I started dressing again. I knew it was for good once I started...

Well, I've only purged twice, once when I was about 19 and then when I was 25. Both times it was because I was moving and was afraid someone would see my stuff. I miss nothing from the first purge...

No I don't think I could handle transitioning. I'm a pretty decent looking guy but at best an ugly women. Hormones and implants wouldn't do much to help that. If I could magically start over as a 16...

Sounds like a great start! I just went through this myself the other day. You get all amped up to go out and then when you do it turns out to be a non event. It's almost a letdown.

That's awesome!! Great story made me smile, thanks for sharing.

I would never tell my wife how to dress or wear makeup ect. I May make helpful suggestions for her while we're out shopping though. I'm lucky to have a pretty feminine wife that likes to dress nice...

You go girl! I've lost over 40 pounds so far and would like to loose another 15. Went from a size 14-16 to a 10. So many more styles are available in smaller sizes and it feels great to be able to...

I did something similar the other day. I went to the grocery store in drab after a morning of dressing. I did clean my make up off but missed some red lip gloss. Got some funny looks at the store....