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I appreciate your insight Jess. It is tough sometimes to parse out what my hopes for our relationship in the future will look like v.s. what actually will happen. I've not mentioned any specifics to...

All these different responses. Wow. My wife and i just recently discussed my cd, and we're still coming to terms with it. So far i don't feel that it has effected us very negatively. I have a hard...

Thank you Jennifer. I honestly didn't even seriously consider telling her until I read your post in your signature. It wasn't that I thought I couldn't trust my wife, it was more of a absolute...

I do feel much better knowing that I'm not hiding anything from her anymore. And i really do hope to one day be able to really share that side of myself with her.



Always :) She's just too...

Thank you everyone for your kind words. It was a long night. Sleep didn't come until the sun did, but we made our peace for the night.

She's not mad. But she's taking her time to think about it...

Sorry I've not been around much for the past couple months. Life has been way busy with a new job and other big life changes - so how about another?


It started out as a regular day/night. We...

Thank you Adina, I've read every post so far! :3

If I were to tell her tomorrow, I'm not sure how she would react. So far, my best luck has been in having small conversations here or there. I'm...

This is great advice, but we are no where near close to having kids :D Dated for 7 years, married for nearly 4, and we've got no desire for kids, lol. Maybe in the future. Every now and again,...

That is a very interesting point.. i never really thought of that!

I'll have to keep that in mind as I ease her into it all. I'll make sure to start off as a "girl next door" rather than a "girl...

That's interesting Kim, I'll have to keep an eye out (if/when the time comes) to see how she reacts.

Always: Wow! That's a big difference! My wife is only about 5" taller than me, but it's...

Hey all! I've been doing a lot of mulling over what I've been reading and have come across something that makes me nervous about reaching out to my wife about my dressing.

First off, everything...

Heh, sometimes I feel like being short (for a guy) is about the only thing I have going for me. 5'5" here. I'd have to wear 5" heels just to be even with my wife! :3 But the fact is that my wife...

That's great! It sounds like you had fun! :3

It sounds like a good sign that she wanted to see your toes!

Reine, thank you for your advice. Theres a lot here that I've never even considered and I really appreciate a fresh perspective. I'm feeling a lot better about talking to my wife about all this,...

This sounds like a good idea..... I'll have to think about that! :3

I think its partly that we've never openly discussed my cd. Mainly, though is that being small in stature, I kinda have built up this (not false) image of being the man for her, which I love. I...

Wow! I posted this late last night and did not expect all these comments when I woke up! (i'm a late sleeper on sundays :D)

I really appreciate all your insights and comments on the matter. I'm...

en drab, of course. I've never publicly dressed. If you're not aware of my situation with my wife it's basically this: She knows I'm bi-curious and that I have an interest in womens attire.
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Once I left my wig out downstairs, and I think my wife saw it. I know she saw some used tissue (for lipstick removal :3 ) down there one time, and she went through one of my old motherboard boxes...

Currently, I don't have a whole lot of my own. i've got a small bag with my sparse makeup supplies and my singular wig in it. The clothes I borrow from the wife :D She's a bit taller than me, so...

LOL, I guess there's no arguing with that logic :P

For me, I've never been very masculine, being somewhat small in stature. I always loved taller women than me, so maybe its an underlying...

I've only done my makeup a handful of times since I started dressing, but each time it gets better. I always hate having to take it off because it took me so long to put on! lol