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Kayla,

I've always said that there are those who have been caught and those who are GOING to be caught. Since you now fall into the first group, your next course of actions would be to make every...

Secret Sis,

Others have already given you some great advice – ESPECIALLY about not coming out to her just before, or on, her birthday. In fact, how well you treat her on her birthday might be...

Well, 'confused99', as much as you would like for it NOT to be, the cat is out of the bag now and there isn't anything that you can do to "un-tell" her. At the very least you now have the knowledge...

Dana,

Think about it. . . . when you're dressed enfemme you are (in a manner of speaking) incognito. If you're like a lot of us your feminine presentation looks very little like your male persona...

OK, so the cat's out of the bag now. The best things you can do is to keep the lines of communication open and free-flowing between the two of you. Answer any/all questions she has as best you can,...

Sharon,

There is a hidden advantage to your daughter moving in with you that I haven't seen mentioned here. You have an opportunity to influence her as to how a true LADY should present herself in...

There is an old saying: "You can take the boy out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the boy." This is just as applicable to crossdressing. I DO respect the fact that you've made a...

N1kk1,

In light of all you've told us, and from the anticipation you indicate to be able to 'take this farther', you are indeed a crossdresser. It's not anything to be ashamed of, but it IS...

You might be interested in the material on my web site. It's a CLEAN site so you don't need to have any fears of seeing anything that would be offensive to you (or to anyone else for that matter)....

Laney,

A lot of the concerns you've indicated are pretty much common to most crossdresser's wives. It's very possible that some of you might find some of the answers to your many questions on my...

Noddia,

You may find a lot of the information you're looking for on my web site. Also, it wouldn't be a bad idea for your fiancé to have a look at it WITH you and discuss the material as you read...

Wishful

From your posts it’s obvious that your wife knows how to use a PC to get around on the internet. With this in mind, let me suggest that you ask her to have a look at my website. It’s a...

Wendy,

The folks here have given you some very accurate and very GOOD advice. What I’m curious about (and what might end up being an asset) is a statement that you made in your post: “But I...

Hello Corrine,

First, my most sincere admiration for your intelligence to seek out some reputable information regarding crossdressing. It's a subject that's misunderstood and misinterpreted by the...

Hi “amasveritas” (for lack of a better name),

Yours is not that uncommon a story. What your mother doesn’t realize is that, in all likelihood, your father has kept his secret all the years...

Ruth,

You stated:


Just to clarify the usage of the word "theory" as it is used in the pages of my web site. . . . . . .

Below is the definition as it appears in Wikopedia. Regardless as...

I appreciate the fact that Ashleigh found interest in the page on my web site about theories concerning the cause(s) of someone being a crossdresser. This thread seems to have generated some...

The name of the program on TBS was "He's A Lady". My personal opinion (based on overall appearance, mannerisms, style, etc) was that Albert should have won the contest - HANDS DOWN.

For those who...

Raverbabe,

I commend you on having the intelligence to research this subject. YOU have apparently realized and accepted something that your husband has yet to admit to himself. You said,

The...

First, I COMMEND you for seeking out advice and answers to your questions. You're apparently a very WISE woman who has a desire to UNDERSTAND some of this rather than immediately condemn...

Sarah,

Your dilemma is not unlike that of many others. Although my wife had very strong suspicions that I was crossdressing for many years, it was just that – suspicions. However, in 2001, the...

Chelsea,

Go to my site and have a look at the material there. It's as clean as you'll find anywhere and you'll find material there that is specific to wifes as well as some that's specific to CDs....

Hi Donna,

Since your wife has encouraged you do research the subject of crossdressing it might be possible that SHE would also be open to the idea of learning a little more about it. With this in...

Pennie,

Please have a look at the material on my web site. It may answer a lot of the questions you have as well as help you overcome some of the anxieties you are experiencing. As a suggestion,...

There's another (what appears to be an interesting) book on the same site titled: Crossdressing in Context. Vol. 1: The Context of Dress and Gender by G. G. Bolich, Ph.D. Here's the link:
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