My wife and I go to a friend's club near our home once or twice a week and I spend the majority of my time on the dance floor. Throughout the night I end up dancing with pretty much everyone there -...
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My wife and I go to a friend's club near our home once or twice a week and I spend the majority of my time on the dance floor. Throughout the night I end up dancing with pretty much everyone there -...
CDs are certainly not reviled in the U.S. and we most definitely do not flaunt the Christian Bible. The ONLY mention of crossdressing in the Bible is to condemn the wearing of women's garments in...
Is it just me or has the angst level risen noticeably around here recently? There's a thread on CDs being reviled the world over, another on being locked in the closet by society, another on aborting...
I'd venture to guess that most all of our personalities are profoundly influenced by our dual natures and our need to have kept such a significant part of ourselves hidden for so long. Certainly...
Christy, I believe your answer is in your own question. When you accept yourself, however briefly, you become optimistic, happy with yourself, and confident. When you don't accept, you become...
I used to mourn the loss of "the thrill", but I find I much prefer the comfort of just feeling normal.
5'4"...stopped growing in the 7th grade. Strangely there were only a few occasions in my life where I wasn't happy with my height as a male, but it's been a blessing for my femme side.
I think Suzy Cool is really on to something with her observations. I have long wondered if CDing isn't on some level a bit of a push back against societal changes over the past 40 years or so. First...
My nails are generally about 1/8" past my fingertips and I always wear clear polish. People rarely comment on them save for an occasional compliment from a GG. You get used to them being longer and I...
I love women's jeans as you can vary your style with a shoe and top change. Plus I blend better doing the day-to-day stuff running errands etc. Like GGs I reserve skirts and dresses for more specific...
I just posted a thread called living a life of truth that has some thoughts apropos to this subject. I don't mean to be flippant, but I believe it is possible to live an ideal life here and now. You...
I was going to post this as a response to a thread about friends and possible blackmail, but I decided to post it as it's own thread. As someone who has suffered the loss and rebirth that comes from...
I'd say I fit most of the traditional definitions of being manly. At age 46 I can still dominate my 16 & 26 year old sons in football/basketball, mountain biking, and inline skating. I love fast...
Oh Girl, can I ever identify with what you are feeling. For years and years I was totally paralyzed with fear, yet kept pushing the envelope. About eight years ago I finally had enough and just...
I absolutely believe it is possible for our wives to truly love us and yet utterly reject our femme sides. My wife loved me for over 7 years with no idea that I was bi-gendered. In very real ways she...
Yep, compliments make my day, whether they clock me as male or not. Ultimately, however, I go out dressed to please myself and all I really require to be happy is for folks to treat me with simple...
Like Karen, I've never really felt misunderstood and have always had a healthy self-esteem. Even in the midst of hating my compulsion to dress as a woman I was always comfortable with other aspects...
I'm not sure a linear scale like this can adequately describe how I see myself. My en femme presentation is superficially female in appearance and manner, yet I remain male at my core no matter what...
Glenda, thank you for sharing such a marvelous story. It's a perfect illustration of how life is supposed to work; indeed how life used to work when we had a sense of community and we actually knew...
Stef make a great point: for many CDing follows all the classic symptoms of an addiction. In my case I WANT to dress to satisfy my need to express the whole me. I dress because it's fun, sensual,...
All of the above for me. My hair is short, but cut in an androgynous style and I rarely wear a wig en femme anymore. I can't remember the last time someone commented on any of my more feminine...
I would have no problem with my wife desiring to present as male at times, but would definitely have a problem with her wanting to transition to full-time. I would always love her deeply as the...
I dress to express to satisfy my feminine side. As far as style I just go with what is appropriate for what I'm doing at the time: jeans for every day/occasionally a skirt, dress/gown for more formal...
Nah. I'm the same person in either set of clothes and I enjoy my male side as much as the female side. I can't really remember the last time I was depressed about anything, actually.
Like everything else, it's the human element that makes something good or bad. The power of the Internet comes from its ability to make connections. How many of us had no idea that we were not alone...