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    Just to be clear, there are indeed relationships...

    Just to be clear, there are indeed relationships based on a negotiated power exchange: an agreement where one willingly submits to the other who then willingly agrees to dominate. This is a fairly...
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    Nancy, thank you for your response. ...

    Nancy, thank you for your response.





    You use the term "lifestyle choice" without defining it. There are two types of lifestyle choices. One involves making conscious decisions when it...
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    You describe WLM (wife-led marriage) or FLM...

    You describe WLM (wife-led marriage) or FLM (female-led marriage) as a lifestyle. Although I initially got the gist of what you meant based on your acronyms, I did just now google it and there are a...
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    I agree with you! I guess I just don't...

    I agree with you!

    I guess I just don't understand why feelings of submissiveness are associated with the wearing of women's things.

    Also, you do agree with me that femininity and submission...
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    It’s amazing how different people can interpret...

    It’s amazing how different people can interpret the same reality in completely different ways.

    The facts as described by the OP:
    The wife does not want to see full dress (she does not object to...
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    I agree. But I think people began using the...

    I agree. But I think people began using the umbrella term "transgender" as a substitute for everything because no one could agree on definitions for transsexual, crossdresser, non-binary, gender...
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    You’ll not reach a consensus on determining...

    You’ll not reach a consensus on determining whether all, none, or some CDers are trans, for the simple reason that everyone defines being "trans" differently. The various personal definitions run the...
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    Sticky: I think that has more to do with the type of...

    I think that has more to do with the type of relationship she has with them, as opposed to the type of relationship she has with you. It doesn't really matter what is the activity when we go out with...
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    Sticky: Jessica, when hanging out I do the same things...

    Jessica, when hanging out I do the same things with my female friends as I do with my SO. Going out for dinner and/or a movie, or having coffee in a bookstore/cafe, or going out for a drink. If there...
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    Sticky: Blonde617, if I had first seen my SO through an...

    Blonde617, if I had first seen my SO through an online dating profile and if he had publicly disclosed the CDing, I likely would not have dated him. I am not biased against alternative expression,...
  11. Sorry if this was mentioned above, but one thing...

    Sorry if this was mentioned above, but one thing that some CDers get consistently wrong is when they believe that wives are jealous of their dressed husbands.
  12. Thread: First Kiss

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    I agree with your basic idea that wearing women's...

    I agree with your basic idea that wearing women's clothing does not change someone's sex. A CDing male is still a man with male anatomy.

    But does it matter what label we put on it, like "gay sex"?...
  13. Not at all. I see the CDing as just one facet of...

    Not at all. I see the CDing as just one facet of my SO. It doesn't take away from everything else he is.

    If you want to reduce it to concrete fundamentals, my SO has the anatomy of a man, he has a...
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    Sorry but you've got it wrong. This is just...

    Sorry but you've got it wrong. This is just taking pride in one's person, which is more about not wanting to look poor or shabby, in the sense that wearing the same outfit to several events is an...
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    It's interesting how your post is about whether...

    It's interesting how your post is about whether wives know about the fantasies of being with men, yet many thread responses skirted around that beautifully - while not denying it either. :) I've also...
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    Sticky: I have a younger brother and it never occurred to...

    I have a younger brother and it never occurred to me, not even once, to dress him up as a girl. As to the rest of your questions, it's a big no to all of them. Until I met my SO, I thought that men...
  17. Thread: Fetish

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    People aren’t born with fetishes. Fetishes are...

    People aren’t born with fetishes. Fetishes are formed when we associate certain behaviors with positive rewards. Our brains become wired to derive satisfaction or pleasure from the behavior that...
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    Sticky: A woman would lose confidence when she finds out...

    A woman would lose confidence when she finds out her husband is a CDer? She would lose confidence in what, her femininity? I disagree. What her husband chooses to do or not do has no impact on her...
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    Sticky: I don't see it as having double standards. Jeans,...

    I don't see it as having double standards. Jeans, trousers, and button-down shirts have become staples of women's wardrobes. They have become a new standard of feminine. It's not the clothes that...
  20. Yes, they've certainly changed. For some...

    Yes, they've certainly changed.

    For some reason, all three of my sons are FABULOUS in the kitchen. When we get together, we have gourmet-fests! And all the spouses benefit! I couldn't bond with my...
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    I had some time of my hands and so a long answer...

    I had some time of my hands and so a long answer is coming. lol

    Some skirts on men are OK. Kilts in Scotland for example. Or sarongs in Indonesia. Or dhotis in India. But none of the men who wear...
  22. Not just women! Guys care a great deal about how...

    Not just women! Guys care a great deal about how they look too, especially when they want to impress someone.

    I have 3 sons and you should have seen THEM go on about looking right before going out...
  23. Over the years when I've complained to my...

    Over the years when I've complained to my ex-husband and now my current SO about one or another aspect of my looks - bad hair day, ugly knees, outfit not looking right, etc, etc, etc, (and lately my...
  24. Late to this but I'll chime in. Re the reasons...

    Late to this but I'll chime in.

    Re the reasons for lying or not disclosing: fear, shame, convenience, etc. This is understandable and all well and good. No one asks CDers to shout it from the...
  25. Thread: Wife opened up

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    Part of the art of dressing like a woman is...

    Part of the art of dressing like a woman is knowing how to avoid wardrobe malfunctions. Maybe you could wear slightly longer dresses that cannot expose your underwear when there is a gust of wind?...
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