So you wasn't always Gender fluid? That makes no sense?
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So you wasn't always Gender fluid? That makes no sense?
Why do so few people understand what Zooey is saying??
She supports CDs, she agrees gender neutral bathrooms are the solution, she understands the safety issue.
The fundamental difference...
If you woke up female it would be with Estrogen and without Testosterone so your sex drive may feel completely different.
Those of you who feel disgust at being with a man, well that feeling may...
I agree with what Nadine said.
I see no bashing rather than distancing.
It's the same Hierarchy issue again. If we could only accept and embrace our differences then we could all get along...
I didn't lump them together, I used each as an example of denial. The sexuality example is much easier highlight, never said they were related.
I know all about denial been there done that and...
Privacy and cleanliness. Privacy isn't really an issue in the women's because of separate cubicles which just leaves cleanliness.
Yeah there's some filthy women but it's far less likely than the...
In regards to Gender-fluid I am ignorant and therefore try asking questions, my issue is there is a lot of self denial in some answers.
It's strange how so few people understand what identity...
I can't get my head around gender-fluid but that doesn't mean it's not real however if you're gender-fluid then you are always gender-fluid therefore not male?
However I don't buy into this idea...
I never said it was wrong?? I asked why and I only asked it of those who are vocal about having a male identity. It was a genuine question as I'm looking at how those who CD and DON'T want to be...
That's what I'm trying to get at, why is it weird? What's wrong with being seen as a Crossdresser?
You say you are a Crossdresser, man who likes to wear female clothing? Are you in someway doing a...
Jennifer I wasn't referring to how you present, using a female name in those circumstances is common sense.
I meant someone who is presenting more like a Transvestite where the inspiration for...
That makes perfect sense, the majority of CDers being closeted in regards to most friends, family and work don't know are in effect trying to remain as inconspicuous as possible therefore using a...
I totally get that and see nothing wrong with what you are doing, my only confusion is if you are happily a male CD who is comfortable with your own sense of gender expression why then use a female...
Sandyhappygirl
The question is:
Would you date a Crossdresser (CD) /(or)Transsexual (TS)
So YES the question was also Transsexual?? I'm not sure how you didn't understand that part.
However...
Try answer this.
Do you see a Transitioned FtM Trans man (TS) as a man because that's who he is inside and how he presents, or as a woman because that's what he was born as?
Think hard on that...
It's a bit disappointing that on a Trans website so many see little difference between a CD and TS.
Is it internal transphobia or ignorance?
Either way it saddens me.
One is like dating a man...
Totally agree with you.
Although there is a bit of a difference eg you have always been black and you can't be black in the closet, it's not something you could keep secret! Also your family won't...
Still haven't seen it!
At least Paula didn't give away the location of our Unicorn sanctuary.
GM
Didn't mean it as perhaps you read it.
I was highlighting how easy it is for someone to pull...
That's simply not true.
Enjoying wearing clothes of the opposite sex or liking feminine things doesn't mean there has to be a female identity??
Be careful you don't wander into a sexist mentally,...
That's why you are not the same, obviously you will never understand.
Nothing to do with Zooey being truly hurt that you just completely dismissed the pain she was in to make such a severe change...
GM prepare for the worst and hope for the best :)
But best to strip away any delusions first because if it does blow up in your face you know what to expect, if it works out well and all is happy...
GM that's the point. Transitioning can literally destroy everything you know, losing family and job is unfortunately common.
It's not fun and if it's really not for you then the strong warnings will...
Tracii you're generalising now.
I know of TS that have never been through any crossdressing stage, some go through surgery and move on and yet never wear feminine clothing.
They have zero...
Nice cup!
Anyone looked at you oddly?
In regard to the bathroom comment I always carry my phone in my bag, when I attend a site visit I leave my bag in the boot and put my phone in my back...
I hope you are. Some of the stuff you say sounds like either two things
1, you are just having fun or 2, you need some help.