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It's whatever makes you feel good and doesn't "out" you in public more than you want. My routine dress for work is male (slacks and polo short) but I femme it up with women's clogs/shoes with a 2"...

Leona: I echo the other cautions about going slow. You have a unique thing with your wife starting to support your crossdressing. Take it slow and involve her as much as she is comfortable with. I'm...

Underdresser: Very valid question and one I've been contemplating more and more. My first public outings were hiking local mountain trails in a skirt in hot weather. It was so liberating and I loved...

Teresa:
Thanks for asking the question. Like you, I have never asked "Why me?" or any variation of that. I certainly don't feel afflicted with anything regarding CDing or my gender expression. I've...

Teresa
Once I had to get something out of my car on the street and thought I could dash out, while in a mid-calf skirt and t-shirt, and not be noticed. No such luck! My neighbor's wife saw me and...

As others have said, you absolutely have to offer to get her one in her size. If she's just expressing a compliment, enjoy it. My wife doesn't usually wear dresses/skirts but appreciates them on me....

BillieAnneJean:

No prostate or other medical issues but started CDing at age 62. Do it every day now. Early childhood CD history and mid-40s gender bending (purse & 3" heeled boots) but it wasn't...

My wife gave me two new nightgowns that didn't fit her across her large chest and them bought me two more in my (smaller) size. I wear them every night now. This all started because I was trying to...

Deane: Thanks for asking the question. It sure raises some people's hackles, but I'm like you, mustache too. At home I dress in women's clothes, jewelry, and heels but don't try to look like a woman,...

To a degree they do, but there are a lot of clothes I like on women that I can't make work for me. I'm also older so some styles just don't look right at this age, even though I like them on women...

Sandra:

Thanks so much for taking the time and courage to tell your story. You've probably realized that many of us share your story, or something very similar. I'm a little older but the story is...

Lena:

Nothing strange about the desire to crossdress coming and going. I think that's a fairly universal thing with all desires. My sense of gender shifts all the time, along with my moods. But I...

Good for you, Helen! I wish you every success.:)

Would love to have more info on how this person acted so I could have a more informed opinion. But sometimes people seem more accepting of different appearance if the person obviously isn't trying to...

Sounds wonderful, Mia.
Good planning and strategy to check out the pub first. You look adorable. Jealous of your 5'4" height. I'm only 5'10". Not tall for a guy but 6'2" in my favorite heels. :doh:...

Here's a place that sells lacy lingerie for men:http://shop.hommemystere.com/categories/All-Products/?q=store/categories/All-Products/
Doesn't do anything for me. Saw it referenced in Mens Health...

Suzie, I respect you and thank you for your welcomes to all the newbies. You always have something encouraging to say to us. I'm sorry your own story isn't as idyllic as we'd like. But we all face...

AuroraLeigh:

I agree with all the responses and we all come to this a little differently. Western society makes it so hard to express our feminine side that, for me anyway, CD was always sexual at...

I chose Gypsy for this site because I played a gypsy girl in a grade school play and secretly loved the flowing dress my mom made for it. I was about 8 or 9 years old and this was my second acting...

If the dressing doesn't do it then it's lipstick and wine (or other beverage) from crystal. Leaving a lipstick stain on the glass and feeling the thin crystal in my fingers with my painted nails does...