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I have a co-worker who does drag, but it's no secret; he even did a drag performance for the talent show at our annual office Christmas party one year. Upper management wasn't into it though, and...

I don't really understand the friend thing here myself either, but if they're active here and not some weird new account I'll always accept the request.

It's not as much an issue here as it is on...

I'm not a social butterfly, never have been, and equating sociability with clubbing is going down a path I know I can't follow. When I was much much younger, more foolish, and fairly desperate, I...

Echoing what Karren and others have said, I feel like time is running out.

If only I had today's bank account and yesterday's body.

If the opportunity presented itself, I would do it in a heartbeat.

Seems like a pretty common fantasy among crossdressing musicians. I always wished that I could put together a CD-themed band, but...

Sounds a lot like my situation, Sandra. I've been working remotely since the pandemic started, but that coincided with my wife deciding to retire, so there's been zero Jennifer time beyond a couple...

I never told my mother directly, and when I was a kid I imagined I was far too careful for her to ever figure out that I was wearing her clothes and makeup when she was out of the house. However, I...

This may be an obvious suggestion to everyone, but if you flip your photos so that they're mirrored, you might be a little happier with the results. We're so used to seeing our faces in the mirror...

Right now I'm in a bit of a lull too -- very few opportunities to dress and no desire to do a half-hearted rush job in whatever spare time remains. If I can't do it in style, I don't want to do it...

Not a lot, but it tends to be an all or nothing kind of thing. I can spend nothing for several months, then go out and spend $300 in one weekend. Nearly everything I buy is off the clearance rack...

I dabbled a bit all throughout early childhood... trying on my mother's wigs, shoes and jewelry. It wasn't until I was maybe 11 or 12 when I finally had the house to myself alone all day that I went...

Pantyhose, decades ago. I shudder to think how shabby and dirty they must have been before I threw them out, because every little item was like gold to me back then.

20 years ago, I was certain that my desire to dress was long gone and never coming back. Regardless, I should have been more forthcoming and upfront about it before I got married. But I assumed the...

Without knowing you two personally, I can only guess at what your wife was fishing at. Most questioning from unaccepting spouses comes from two fears -- that you're either planning to transition or...

When I was in my late 20's I "quit" for good and purged everything simply because I felt like I was getting too old for it. My body was getting bulkier and harrier, and I just didn't like what I was...

Sheesh... it takes me an hour at least to get dressed and made up. How you ladies manage it in a car I can't imagine.

Seems to me that reversing the process would be even trickier, unless you...

Since I don't have kids (and never will), this is a hard question to answer. I guess I would just firmly but politely tell the child that they shouldn't try on other people's clothes without asking,...

From the first time I dressed up in my teens, I believed the girl I saw in the mirror was who I was truly supposed to be. So from that aspect, no, it was not hard to admit to myself. What was...

I don't believe that all crossdressers are transgender or will inevitably become interested in transitioning. But if the question is whether some people believe that to be true, then the answer is...

I suspect the true number is what some others here have said -- more men have tried it than will admit it, but that's still nowhere near the majority of men.

Without that need that most of us...

I know it's kind of pointless for me to focus so much on makeup since I don't go out en femme (other than driving around town a bit), but I just don't feel fully transformed without it. If I don't...

I agree with Julie. You've given some pretty strong reasons why you shouldn't do this -- such as your parents, your wife's job, and your future employment options. Once the photos are out there,...

I made a huge mail order purchase from Fredericks of Hollywood when I got my first apartment. Except for the stockings, none of it fit, but I was too embarrassed to try to send it back. (The...

Seems to be a pretty common experience... buying pantyhose at the grocery store. I recall going up and down every aisle in the store with my shopping cart, picking up lots of other random items to...

If you want to grow your hair out, go for it.

I've grown my hair out since the pandemic started (that's my frizzy natural hair in my avatar). It's super convenient for quick dressing sessions...