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  1. Thread: Purging

    by GretchenM
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    I completely agree. Over the 60 years that I have...

    I completely agree. Over the 60 years that I have been doing this off and on, purging has never worked. I suppose for a few it does work, but in my view this behavior is most likely a large part of...
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    In the past I would get the pink fog so bad it...

    In the past I would get the pink fog so bad it was like being unable to see anything else. Now that I have reached a point of stability in my non-binary identity and expression pink fog is a rare...
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    Wow, Kandi. You look fantastic. You are...

    Wow, Kandi. You look fantastic. You are definitely an inspiration.
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    I also endorse the support group if one is...

    I also endorse the support group if one is available near enough to attend on a regular basis. It is a great place to meet others, learn a great deal about this phenomenon, and encounter the wide...
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    You are in a good situation in spite of the...

    You are in a good situation in spite of the rules. Many of us take a long time to achieve that and a lot never achieve that - I certainly haven't. Respect her boundaries and you will likely be good;...
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    The women's sizing issue is a big problem, even...

    The women's sizing issue is a big problem, even for women. Sometimes it seems like the manufacturers have yet to hear about tape measures. It is kind of a crap shoot. Sounds like you did well. I have...
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    It happens to a lot of us and it is really...

    It happens to a lot of us and it is really disheartening. People who are cisgender (only have one gender identity that is noticeable) also experience it, but it is over things that are not identity...
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    Not a dumb question at all. In our world there...

    Not a dumb question at all. In our world there are very few dumb questions if you are asking about your experiences that drive or result in your becoming the person attached to your alternate...
  9. Quite frankly, I don't know. At my age I really...

    Quite frankly, I don't know. At my age I really can't remember 20 years ago. ;-) But if I knew now or knew someone 70 years ago who knew what I no now I think my life would have been very different,...
  10. Thread: Greetings

    by GretchenM
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    Happy New Year to you as well. It is a beautiful...

    Happy New Year to you as well. It is a beautiful thing to achieve that point where you can be completely honest with yourself and your identity. It becomes very peaceful without all the ups and downs...
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    I have at least something women's on about 95% of...

    I have at least something women's on about 95% of the time, or even more. Often just a women's sweatshirt and a pair of flats. I often find myself exhibiting mild mannerisms that women often do and I...
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    My dressing comes and goes just like most of us....

    My dressing comes and goes just like most of us. But my sense of a female-like identity is almost always there in some form or other. Nobody knows exactly why this happens but it is true of everybody...
  13. I find it interesting that often these people who...

    I find it interesting that often these people who like to hurl insults at others do what this guy did. They depart the scene quickly. Presumably so they do not have to suffer the response that might...
  14. For me, although my gender identity (NB) is...

    For me, although my gender identity (NB) is important I cannot even imagine throwing away 53 years of togetherness just because I am different sometimes and my wife has trouble understanding it. It...
  15. I used to feel that way, but now I don't feel...

    I used to feel that way, but now I don't feel much need to buy things at any time of the year. I guess I am happy with what I have and it fits my sense of self so well. But if something needs to be...
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    What a beautiful story of acceptance. You have...

    What a beautiful story of acceptance. You have achieved what so many of us are reaching for and your words are so uplifting. Like Crissy, you are one of the finest people I know or have ever known. A...
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    You look fantastic, Meghan.

    You look fantastic, Meghan.
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    That certainly is a concern any time there is a...

    That certainly is a concern any time there is a deep secret. Unfortunately, there is no easy answer no matter what the secret is. Secrets are, in some ways, deceptions. I think the most important...
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    Knowing you, I think you must already be well...

    Knowing you, I think you must already be well accepted in your local area. That will count for a lot as now perhaps people will hear the backstory to who you are why you dress this way. There may be...
  20. Stress can have two different effects depending...

    Stress can have two different effects depending on how you and your brain perceive the effects of the switch in gender expression. It happens with people who are not like us as well. The first effect...
  21. Seventy years ago I would have likely done...

    Seventy years ago I would have likely done something like my mother did with me. 'you are a (girl or boy, whichever is the case) and you should not be wearing those clothes.' But it is not and we now...
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    A great step, Angela. I always thought you might...

    A great step, Angela. I always thought you might be trans and that your crossdresser identity was a smoke screen of sorts. It is common for people who identify as crossdressers to eventually discover...
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    I realized there was something different about me...

    I realized there was something different about me compared to the other boys when 4 or 5. I related to girls really well and not so well with boys. By 8 I was exploring using my mother's clothes and...
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    I agree with Di. But it is also hard when you are...

    I agree with Di. But it is also hard when you are a bit dysphoric which I think may be part of the reason you feel so bad. I have had a few times when that happened and I was anticipating alone time...
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    Monica is right in her first post in this thread....

    Monica is right in her first post in this thread. Psychologists confirm about the sensory pick-me-up, especially with some males.

    When in high school I wore them when skiing on really cold days....
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