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It is your birthday. You can make her feel special too. What better present could you give yourself?
Sounds like a win/win.
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BekiJ

There was a medical TV show, I think Seattle Grace, or maybe the spin off set in California, where a firefighter underdressed, and the bra and panties melted into the skin.

So, wear cotton!
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No. No qualifiers need. 'nough said.
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BekiJ

I am generally of the "don't ask, don't tell if you don't want her to ask and you don't want to tell" crowd (in the closet).

However, it's too late for that. Suck it up. The sooner the better. As...

Don't shave - anything. Grow a beard. Sure ruins the visuals if nothing else.

I realize it might not work for some.

And take it one day at a time.

Best of luck.
BekiJ

This is about where I am. If my wife asked, I would first answer with a question, and then the unvarished truth, as gently as possible.

I would not anticipate anyone else asking.

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BekiJ

Last week, the posts seemed to be “now I know I can’t tell my wife.” This week’s posts are “honesty is best.” Seems to go back and forth.

We seem to have two factions here:

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I believe this sums it up pretty well. With the right incentive, you can change behaviors. Now would the desire go away? Probably not.

It is all about choice. Income taxes - you choose to pay...

I agree with ya Steph. I perceive my wife to have a similar attitude. I am not willing to risk 35 years over something that has built up slowly over those years. I don't pretend to know what is...

I see myself in so many of these posts, especially Lainie’s. 35 years ago, it was not an issue, a once and a while thing. As I got older the urge got stronger. Fortunately, I would guess that I am...

My point exactly. Which is why my wife "does not need to know." It would be a burden that she does not need.

And after reading the other new horror story threads today, I am more convinced than...

If you don’t want to obsess about cding, don’t buy breast forms. Ever since I got them the thought of them pops into my mind way to often. I even look down at times to be sure I am not wearing...

I am ok looking 55 as a guy, but that just doesn’t fly when dressed. Just can’t do much about the face.

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BekiJ

Allie, that is so funny - sleep on your side! I usually sleep on my stomach, and sometimes roll onto my side. I cannot fall asleep on my back. I’ve tried, because the only time I remember any...

I doubt she knows. Don't keep anything around the house.

If she knows, she is choosing to not acknowledge it. If that is the case, this leads me to believe that's the way she wants it.

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I second Dana and Debie. Even now I should be doing something else.
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BekiJ

Thank you Dana, well said.
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BekiJ

Ok, it was a nightmare and not a dream. My wife found out. I either told her, or she caught me. Talk about waking up in a sweat. Nothing was really clear, but I am sure I was toast. I am obsessing...

Angel, I have tried balloons. There just is no comparison. Save your dollars and get breast forms. If you have a vice (expensive coffee, tobacco, whatever), give it up for a week, put the money away...

I have size 7 forms from (I think) lennonsbestbuy. These are suppose to fit a 36D. I had a 38D bra, which was too big for the forms.

On a recent trip, I bought two bras at VS. One a 36D and the...

I can’t remember the last time my wife wore a skirt or dress..oh, yes I can, about 6 years ago on our anniversary. T shirt and jeans most of the time. Press ‘em flat sports bras. She does have...

Would I take a “cure.?” As much as I enjoy it, probably, yeah, it would make life simpler. And this does not mean I think it is a sickness or disease. It just means that there are things that I...

Absolutely. I am more comfortable with myself. There is still the fear of being found out, but there are times (a second here and there) when my attitude is “so what.” As I have said before, my...

I’m with Karren H on Extreme Home Makeover. Simple things like that. Real tragedies, not so much so.

I have noticed that I have been more susceptible the last 10 years or so. Happy or sad, get a...

And I failed to mention that I did not only shop for me at VS. Since Valentines Day was coming up, my wife deserved some attention. I could either buy something for me (for her to wear, probably...