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    1) Have you ever told anyone you were a...

    1) Have you ever told anyone you were a Crossdresser? IYes- wife and daughter, best friend, neighbors, and anyone who sees me out
    2) Have you every shown anyone your pictures? a friend in sewing...
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    I think that human beings operate on multiple...

    I think that human beings operate on multiple levels at once- a shotgun approach to survival!

    We learn as children that people care about how we look, judge us by how we look, and tons of things...
  3. Thread: What next.....

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    The thing that makes the conversations...

    The thing that makes the conversations irreconciliable is the idea of mistrust, so you have to be absolutely honest and that is the embodiment of trusting her- which proves you are trustworthy. I...
  4. Thread: Just be honest

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    Maria, 'Just being honest' happens at so many...

    Maria,
    'Just being honest' happens at so many levels- and the more of ourselves we explore, the more honest we are. As others have said here, it is a definite fact that if we are limiting IRL our...
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    My hunch is that maybe next time you stay...

    My hunch is that maybe next time you stay dressed, and he'll enjoy his upset, but eventually only want to make sure you make another meal just as delicious and spot on. He'll bluster around and...
  6. Thread: Confused

    by phili
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    Hi Georgia, Welcome, and please keep...

    Hi Georgia,
    Welcome, and please keep talking...you have been through hell and maybe have not yet found the door, but you can see the light is on outside. I think confusion is when we have murky...
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    That is so interesting- that people just...

    That is so interesting- that people just understand you as a female! Wonderful- I am glad for you.
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    Transgender people have been in the news...

    Transgender people have been in the news worldwide for some years now and there are very few places in western countries where once can't be themselves and enjoy a normal life. People want you to...
  9. Thread: Hipper sensitive

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    I think most people who are antagonistic are...

    I think most people who are antagonistic are hiding their own TG feelings from themselves- so on the rare occasion if someone is malicious I am not bothered- I think to myself- 'hi, sister! I hope...
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    In my experience bisexuality is kind of...

    In my experience bisexuality is kind of fundamental to people but is usually thoroughly suppressed. CDing starts to break down the inner walls and we start thinking, hmm, what if..., and seeing with...
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    Hi Jean, It seems to me you are so...

    Hi Jean,
    It seems to me you are so straightforward that the newcomers felt they could trust you, and their innocence makes them good as friends as well. You'll be the mayor soon!
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    Sounds nice! Time spent in just sewing or...

    Sounds nice! Time spent in just sewing or organizing competes with going out for me- I get a different kind of experience of myself.
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    Share the arc of your crossdressing life

    I am 68, having crossdressed passionately since age 4. Only in the last few years since retirement have I been able to finally move out of the closet and examine my urge in the light of day, and I...
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    Once I let myself be the girl that I feel natural...

    Once I let myself be the girl that I feel natural being, and go out to be with people and interact in normal situations, shopping , art classes, etc- poof! no more dysphoria. Since my wife is...
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    HI Nancy, You have touched on an interesting...

    HI Nancy,
    You have touched on an interesting point- the relationship between gender role dysphoria and body feature dysphoria. My triggers were that I was jealous of all sorts of things women could...
  16. Thread: dressing blues

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    When I don't feel like dressing/or do, but just...

    When I don't feel like dressing/or do, but just can't find the right outfit- or my fave just doesn't feel wonderful I am disappointed too. I want the 'there I am!' high, or the special 'at last...'...
  17. Thread: Being a MIAD

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    Hi gang, I'm a mirl in a dress- which will for...

    Hi gang,
    I'm a mirl in a dress- which will for most people look like a MIAD. 'Mirl' to me is male girl- and that sums up my experience of my identity. I am male, but I feel like a girl. So I am a...
  18. Thread: not coming out

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    I design my own clothes now that I learned about...

    I design my own clothes now that I learned about pattern making and sewing techniques- and I am mulling over what a carpentry dress might look like- clingy is good. For outdoor gardening or tractorr...
  19. Thread: not coming out

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    I think it boils down to individual personality....

    I think it boils down to individual personality. What parts of ourself feel private and to be preserved that way- and what parts do we want to share with others. It is TMI for me to share my...
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    in deebra's defense- I don't think it useful to...

    in deebra's defense- I don't think it useful to speculate on people's motives here- it is guesswork and criticizing them is discouraging to sharing.

    The forum is very repetitive in terms of the...
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    Do you spend time in the company of women?

    I have enjoyed my sewing classes this spring- being with from 20-30 women of very diverse ages and cultures for 4-6 hours a day three days a week We were sitting and working together on projects,...
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    To add to that, I think the underlying...

    To add to that, I think the underlying sociobiology from millions of years of evolution is that males are bigger and stronger as a general rule, and tend to be sexually predatory/competitive-hence...
  23. Thread: Just go out

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    Thanks for the positive feedback-I think it is...

    Thanks for the positive feedback-I think it is funny that I didn't even think my dress was that short- just on the short end of normal.

    And that illustrates one of the inner measuring tapes...
  24. Thread: Current Thoughts

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    HI Jason, You said : "I'm having a hard time...

    HI Jason,
    You said : "I'm having a hard time dealing with how much she hates a valuable part of me. She insists she doesn't hate part me of just hates the clothes. I can't as easily split them...
  25. Thread: Current Thoughts

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    Hi Jason, I am so sorry to hear all this. My...

    Hi Jason,
    I am so sorry to hear all this. My wife finally did admit at the therapist that her FEAR was about 6 different versions of shame from others discovering my predilection, AND that it ruined...
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