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GG here - It sounds like her initial reaction was a good and a thumbs up on the card!!! :thumbsup:

As others have said, you may feel like this is crawling along at a slow pace, but she may just...

Sarah,
Such a hard thing to do, but it can be a good thing. Bravo to you!
As to the vulnerable part - you just shared the huge secret part of you and you are waiting to see how she will react....

As a GG/SO some of the responses on this post makes me so very angry and some just make me SMH....
We were married for 20 years, knew each other for almost 28 years, before I found her stash. ...

Wife here, I talk about this with my husband all the time. Even though we have only been out together a few times, with a group in a different town, this is one of my fears if she does start going...

Wife here: I'm going to rank myself. lol
I would say I am at a 1.5. I don't actually "enjoy" it, but I do love seeing my SO happy and I know this makes him happy. I do ask him to dress...

As a wife/gg I agree with what Jennie said. Even though you are in DADT relationship, you stated you didn't wear wigs or breast forms so a change in that should entail a conversation. And this is a...

DonnaS-
Sounds like you went through a lot with your ex.
I just don't think that is always the case though.
Do I think my Love is beautiful when enfemme, YES! Do I want her to tell me I'm...

From a GG/wife of a CD:
Please don't ever say to her you think she is jealous. From my standpoint it's more about trying to be a part of the CD side of my hubby's life and sometimes for me it's...

As a wife & GG, you definitely crossed the line.
It took me a while to be able to see my husband dressed and even then it was small steps and for only short amount of times. I would have been...

Jennixx - no one per say.
Just found it amusing getting the "dictionary" reference.
Some one made the point about if we didn't ask if they were crossdressers. I know I never did. Lol.
I also...

I NOW understand what the difference is in the dictionary. Thank you for clearing up the fact that he was only dishonest for 20 years, not lying about a part of who he really is.

I will make...

As the wife of a CD who didn't find out until after 20 years of marriage, I have to say this is an interesting post.
IMHO, I was LIED to. Sugar coat it how ever you want, but keeping a "secret" of...

My problem is I'm having to get rid of some of my clothes as my DH, Nikki grows her wardrobe! One small walk in closet for 2 women and 1 man isn't working. And all the extra closets are being used...

I would have to say yes to marrying him even if I knew. He was/is my best friend. We knew each other for years before we dated. I was 12 he was 14 when we meet. I was 20 & in college when we got...

I'm a SO who found out 20 years & 4 kids later, just over 4 months ago.
It is very devastating to know the person whom you loved, trusted, gave your life to, kept this HUGE part of who they are a...

As a SO, I would be sure to discuss it with your SO.
My hubby and I have told 3 of our mutual GG. They are very open minded and are great support to my hubby. He has not dressed in front of them...

I really suggest talking to her about it. Is she ready? How much would she like to see? Just dressed first? Full hair, makeup, dress?
My CD Hubby and I talked about it first, if I was...

We have 4 kids. 18, 14 & 3yo B/G twins. My hubby has dressed in front of the twins but my older girls do not know. I only found out about 3 months ago. Since my boy twin is surround by girls he likes...