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I used to come here a fair bit. But, when I started to express a viewpoint - not detrimental - just a viewpoint, from where I stand - I got criticised to the point of it making me question myself....

"You got your ear's pierced?"

"Yes"

"Why"

"Coz I wanted to"

End of story.

It seems you want a definitive answer. Sorry, there isn't one. We are all individuals and these things affect everyone differently. Even the experts can't agree.

All the doubts, nerves, confusion is all really normal when you first start. Most of all when the lady looking at you from the mirror doesn't meet the expectations you set for yourself. In you...

I concur.

Go and buy your own clothes. If you need to find out what sizes you need - that is the only time you should be trying and comparing with her stuff.

And - I know why you didn't...

If you want to - why don't you?

Let me get this right - you girls are considering - or have already paid - for recordings to make you feel more feminine than you already do?

Why?

If you don't - why would you want to? If you...

I will buck the trend here.

Now, it could be argued that hormones and gender transition have broken down the barriers to let me express latent homosexual feelings that I may have felt prior to my...

Ahhh. The problems with living a dual life.................

I was asked to contribute to a series of talks around the time of my transition to full time. I don't do public speaking very often but the subject was security in our business, which I did have a...

By putting keystroke to Internet page, I will invariably get some who agree, some who don't, other's who think I am stupid and still more who think I am wise. I will reach those who don't care as...

As a pre-op MtF, I was attracted to women but my GI was basically female so I got by by thinking of myself as a lesbian with a slight advantage. I wasn't predisposed to being attracted to men but...

I sometimes wonder how we can be so surprised that anyone else can accept us for who we are?

You are dressed as a woman. You look like a woman. Why do you question why they accept that you are a...

Sue has hit the nail on the head. The biggest tell is the beard shadow. If you want to go out without makeup - you better not look like Homer Simpson - unless you like the looks.

I am so glad that...

OK. I am going to go out on a limb here and say something that most people will argue.

Men (including many CD's) will find satisfaction firstly themselves and secondly for their partners. Women,...

A common thread to this thread (LOL) is that 24/7 is hard work.

Now you know why those of us who do transition end up spending a lot of time in flat shoes, pants, very little makeup and hair tied...

I had a couple of occasions in a previous life like that where someone was surprised that their dog/cat only likes women and would sidle up to me.

The animals must have known more than I was...

As a serious, serial CD'er, you tend to throw out little inuendo's most of the time. Especially when the pink fog is strong. You do it without consciousness.

Who can blame anyone if they feed off...

How very poetic. I lurve this question.

I am defined by the moment. I am defined by my existence. Existentially, I am defined by those who know me. Ultimately, I am defined by those deeds and...

When you say you are Crossdressing full time, do you mean you live full time as a female or you go out as a female?

I ask because, if you are living full time as a female, then the beginning is...

Lesson number 2. Always lock your doors when you get into your car.

Hi Violet

What you have experienced is perfectly normal for any woman walking the streets at 2am in the morning by herself. Being hassled by scumbag men who don't know what "no" means happens...

Woops - got that one LOL

Ok. I am going off topic too



I agree BUT who is paying the bills? Raising kids is not cheap. I put off transitioning for years for the sake of my kids. Now I am broke and they only barely...

I get several hundred customers a day. A few CD's I know from a club frequent my store.

I still usually "clock" a couple of paople per month that I don't already know. I do "clock" a few in male...