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Oh my....the stars must have been lined up for you. Thank goodness your wife didn't come home on time! I think getting caught intentionally would have backfired terribly. Please don't do that to her!...

Hi Charlie. I really feel for what you and your wife are going thru. Wish I had a magic answer for you. First, was there an incident or something that came up that caused your wife to fall in to this...

What a great thread...I just wanted to say: after going thru all of this craziness and drama and trauma and learning and talking and dealing with stuff and trying to figure this all out and...

Perfect answer. I don't think you can really learn how to be more feminine, but if you relax in to it and are confident in that part of who you are, it will naturally flow. Wish I had the answer cuz...

Mars isn't such a terrible place once you get used to the atmosphere! This forum is the main reason I am able to not only accept but understand and even share in and embrace my BF's CDing. You will...

Lately I really do prefer him more in femme mode because I'm in this kind of fascination with it all mode. Plus he's so much happier when he dresses and has a great wardrode...and maybe because I...

Hi Kerigirl..

I'm pretty new to all of this, but hopefully I can be of some help.

There is absolutely nothing in life that can prepare a woman who has no experience in this area, for this kind...

OMG...I hope I'm not as pathetic as that! What I really think is we're at the weird beginning stage and ya...with perhaps more issues than normal..whatever normal is...but I don't feel like it's a...

Don't you think that will balance out in time? Or have I been such an enabler that it won't unless I start ignoring it and let him do his thing? Phew...I need a vacation.



Thank you Natasha......

ya but...from a GG's point of view. We have no choice but to spend all of that time getting ready every day (I hate it) and when you guys/girls do it it's not only time consuming it's like we (I, at...

Stop it immediately! This is how I figured it out...things not where I left them, hung wrong, 2 of my favorite silk jumpers pulled totally out of shape, buttons popped off of a skirt...all kinds of...

Thanks Chris...I might just try that. But in do I do it when he's in girl or boy mode? I'm not even close to reconsidering this relationship. I know that I need patience...that's hard tho.

One...

Hi...don't know if I can be of too much help since I m pretty new to all of this. But...it seems to me that by saying things like "I'm struggling with IT again" puts it out there as a horrible...

Refusal to accept is definately the root of the problem I think.
He claims that he's never done this before, that it's just a new thing that's come on since I've been in his life. Gawd...How...

Thanks for that. Maybe I'm not taking it all as seriously as I should. It hurts to see someone you love going thru something neither one of you understand. It's horrible to see it..or anything..as a...

Rhonda Jean...I appreciate your and everyone's honesty and willingness to share. It's a massive relief to have someone to talk too.


Ain't that the truth...I think that might be a little bit of...

Wow this whole thing is so complicated on so many levels. You would think that this would be more complicated emotionally for me but not even close. Thank you all for being so candid and taking the...

Wow Tina...thanks. That helps alot!!!!! Kelly

What are the right questions to ask without sounding like I'm accusing him of something and without him getting defensive? It's very uncomfortable even going there..I'm not sure that he knows how he...

Argggghhhh...what does that mean????? Geeeeeeeezzzz....I have given him 1000% freedom...it's all about him getting in touch with her right now in our lives. Sorry to get off topic but...what's the...

How do you get to that place when you are torn between 2 genders?

thanks so much Joni. I did tell him right away how it made me feel...belittled, inferior...that it was OK to emulate me and my gender until there was a real issue to deal with and then it felt like...

I'm pretty new to all of this too and feel the same way. Maybe not quite so "in love" with her, but I do like his femme side. It is VERY confusing trying to put 2 personalities together ecspecially...

I guess I get that...but when you're on the other side of it it seems like a very immature move which felt like an attempt to be "superior". After he changed he did say that he didn't want to do this...

This is my first post but I've been lurking around for awhile. the comments on this board have really helped me out so far...thanks for that. Just found out about my BF's crossdressing a few months...