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I struggled pretty badly with self acceptance. I never got rid of my stuff but I hid it away and tried to forget about it. I even thought I could research 12 step programs and see if I could apply...

In male mode I look manly i guess. I don't trim my eye brows or grow out my nails. I'm too nervous to let my nails get too long. I tend to bite them as soon as they're long enough to be bit. I...

Are brown eyes a mistake or are blue? Which is the mistake... left or right handed? We're all individuals. We all fit in in our own way.

Imagine the things we could accomplish in this world if we all worked well together... Kinda sad really that we don't.

Off subject but if I have a male AND female side, does that mean I'm using 20% of my mental capacity?

Can I candidly say I thought it was funny you said you didn't want her opinion on cloths and then said she doesn't have good taste. You're kind of doing to her what you don't want her to do to you. ...

It'd be a shame if you left. Your comments are always quite thought provoking. It is ironic that you come to a place for acceptance and find others who are looking for the same thing but do not...

Yeah she knows. This is how I was able to tell my wife but I was able to tell her in the bed room, not a shoe store. Wait till you're in the bed room again and then have a talk. I'm going to guess...

I don't have any sons but I have 3 daughters I'll have that conversation with!

This is something I'm going to have to confront soon. Its really weird. I identify myself by my male name. I like my name. Being called anything else seems weird but maybe it'll get easier with...

My wife is like this. Even before we got together and she found out about my other side. Even if people don't agree with someone's lifestyle, I can get them to admit that they have no right to...

My best friend went through this a couple years ago. He came out and told me he was gay and had been repressing it. I think he had trouble with self acceptance and with trying to live his life as...

Its different and people are afraid of different things. Either that or it makes them look at themselves and scares them.

You should talk to your sister about it. She might be pretty understanding and helpful. You, of course, know your sister better than I do so proceed with your own level of caution.

Thats a great story. I would have loved to be there to see it play out.

Dresses and skirts don't really go with my male persona. Especially the ones in the article. With that said, however, I really would like to find the courage to wear a utilikilt out and about. ...

My too. My wife got a little freaked at first but now she really pushes me to accept myself more. She accepts me a lot more than I do. I still struggle a lot with society. I think the key is to...

Sometimes I find myself doing things like twirling my hair or what not and i'm like "Oh no! What will people think?" I wish I could break free of worrying. I'm much more liberated as a man. I...

I could go either way. I think I enjoy the company of women more but really, sometimes Women don't like to talk about fun things like computers or motorcycles. And I'm way more fun than my wife so...

No advice but thats a great story! You must have felt a little liberated? Thanks for sharing.

What is your living situation? Do you live alone? Married? Ebay is a good place to find inexpensive clothes and makeup. Maybe even a wig but I never looked in to it. Things don't have to change...

Well spoken! I don't always like the struggle between my two sides but I'm quite happy with my life and being me. I don't know anyone who is as fun, thats for sure.

I flip flop. I'm a quiet guy. I'm not really the take charge type. I like when my wife takes charge, which is good cuz thats how she is. I like to be more submissive. Maybe I'm just lazy? I...