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Thanks so far! I do want to clarify some more that dressing up or playing the part of a woman in any way (whether in private or in public, whether with my wife or by myself) is not what I'm looking...

No not the mall :) I'm wondering if I can't elicit some of your collective experience/wisdom on the topic of creative outlets for someone like myself who has an unaccepting SO. I don't want replies...

Sorry for the confusion. I do very much love high heels and for crossdressing they are my number one obsession. What I'm saying is that, during this experience of doing pushups and looking at what...

Yesterday, I was doing pushups in my living room (such a guy thing to say huh?) and my wife's new Alfani platform patent leather heels were right in front of me so that I was basically staring at...

There certainly is a difference between a woman wearing a wide array of styles (including anything available for men whether cut for a woman or not) and a woman intentionally trying to portray a man....

I used to stash my mom's pantyhose in a hole in my wall that I covered with a picture. My parents searched it once while I was out. Though they were looking for drugs, they found the stash. My...

One thing I love about Easter-all the cute outfits! I just thought I'd say that.

Funny. I just logged on here to create a thread about the issue of cd dreams. I get them somewhat regularly. They are always different, but often they are the most tantalizing mental indulgences I...

Contrary to what 90% of these replies say, the question "why" is INCREDIBLY important. People who don't ask themselves this question about their behaviors and desires (especially significant things...

Well I would argue that the HUMUNGOUS difference between what I allow in my psyche and rape is the willingness of the "woman". Dressed up, I allowed myself to use myself. It's not at all as if I...

I've definitely felt that rush. I wonder if that rush merely intensifies the feelings of gratification I have for other reasons, or if they constitute an entirely separate and independent...

This really touches on a strong point for me. It seems that, almost regardless of how crossdressing gets its start in our lives, it seals us into it by virtue of the fact that we inevitably related...

Simplest explanation is: Society has allowed that women can wear whatever they want, so they are not doing anything wrong when they wear even a men's cut article (though it is true that this came...

I can deeply relate to both reasons, as well as the sarcasm of not wanting to really go there :).



That is SO helpful. Thank you so much for taking the time and giving the energy! :)


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What is it about the female role that you relate to so much more?



Sorry to nag- but it would help if you could describe what "such a person" is that you feel like you wholly identify with.

If the question was "why do you want (sometimes at least) to be a woman (temporarily at least) in your sense of being a woman?" how would you answer?

If I may press the issue, what exactly has felt right about it?



Why do you think you would like to present yourself (from time to time at least) like a woman? What is it about the...

Do you think, in this context, that you like the clothes because they make you feel like a woman or that you would like to be a woman because you just like those clothes for themselves?



Me...

You may be surprised to find out womens' response to this perception. I was.



So, could I break this down into the following reasons:
1. Because it would be more pure than crossdressing....

I don't mean transitioning/srs. I don't even mean "all things considered". What I mean is, assuming for a moment that you have felt at any moment the desire to be (whether forever or for just a...

I remember when I first shared with my wife of 1 year the fact that I HAD crossdressed. I had led up to it at length (mostly out of fear of actually saying it and with an absolutely horrifying "what...

Hmm, I certainly have had the experience of feeling very "plugged in" to my "manness" after having dressed. I don't know if I'd call it a knee jerk reaction (though I don't deny that there could be...

To say I am partially a product of environment does not negate that I am also obviously a product of my choice. I believe in soverignty of will- I am no robot- not even a very complicated and cool...

I agree that, when I actually think about it, our "society" doesn't exactly have a big problem with CDing. Sure, it's still not quite used to it and there is some stigma attached, but not...

I do agree with those that say their crossdressing was about a female persona, not about the clothing items themselves, but I also firmly believe that if all lines were cast away, that some men...