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Yes, all the time. If only I could look as good as the ladies that trigger me.

Nicely put - that really nails it.

I was thinking about my response and then saw that Cheryl T wrote it for me. So yeah, what she said.

It's just the way we are. It's no different than being born blonde vs. redhead.

Dressing for me is multi-faceted and I doubt that I'm very different from many of you. (1) It's definitely sexual. (2) It's nice to step outside of myself and be someone else for a while. (3) I...

I noticed something funny/interesting this week.

When I travel for 5 days of business travel, I pack the usual - 2 slacks, 5 shirts, etc. Then I pack all of my femme stuff. I don't filter my...

I'm bored and confused. I had my makeover, I went shopping and to dinner en femme, I posed for a lot of pics and I posted the pics and my story for all of you to see. I bought make-up and brushes...

Hi Anna,
Your boyfriend might find this hard to believe right now because he is young and new at this and is experiencing many of the fears and apprehensions that almost every one of us have...

Hi April,

Baby steps sweetie. You have support here that most of us did not have when we were your age. Go at the pace that feels right for you and enjoy the discovery. Hugs, Pamela

You touch on some important points Isha. Your superhero costume is a great example. We never truly know what is going on unless we dialog with each other. It's the old adage about ASSUME - you...

I found myself doing something today that I have never done before. I was (en homme) out with my kids - lunch, a little walking and window shopping, a sidewalk café for a cold drink, and enjoying...

I think the questions were OK. It's fair to want to know something about the person that is going to live in your house. The request for the photo however is weird and out of line.

Your answer...

Be free, be happy. Find a way to make it fit in your life. There is no suppressing it. Close to 100% of us have tried, yet here we are. The people that truly love and care about you do so...

Hi Rhonda,

I can't speak to the hair issue. I wear a wig. Even if I could grow my hair to a feminine length and get a feminine cut, there is nothing I can do about the growing patch of skin on...

Here is the story of my makeover. I arrived around 10am. I had not yet shaven because I wanted to wait as long as possible so that we could start with the freshest shave and make it through the day...

I had a transformation yesterday, which I will write about separately. The makeup artist told me that even though I will likely be doing my makeup in a close-up mirror right in front of me, be sure...

Yesterday was my makeover and shopping experience. I going to tell you all about it, but I am still processing what it all meant to me. And because I took a day from work to do it, I'm now way...

I learned a new term this week - the pink fog. I think I'm in it.

I've been working from home this week, if you can call it working. I have been so distracted by thoughts of being en femme that...

Hi Erica,

I'm so sorry to hear your news. I hope that you heal with time and move forward with a smile.

Hugs,
Pamela

I've shared apartments with 4 different roommates between college and marriage. None ever snooped in my room (to my knowledge) and none ever found my secret. One of them is still a very close...

My story is similar. I experimented with my mom's clothes as a teen. But I don't think it had anything to do with an analytical mind or not. I've always been analytical and left-brained. I played...

Donna - too funny. I play the drums too. Well, I did. I'll always call myself a drummer even though I haven't played in years and was never as good as I wanted to be.

I think about it all of the time. If I see a woman to whom I am attracted, then I'll think about wearing her clothes or playing dress up with her. If I see clothing ads in a magazine, I think about...

I definitely dress younger than my real age. I think it's because I want to be the hottie that I fantasize about - the one I couldn't be with when I was that age.

Yes, frequently. Especially the part about wearing their clothes and being beautiful!

I out myself quite often. I travel a lot on business, so often times I will ask the hotel desk clerk if there are CD-friendly restaurants, clubs or shopping in the area. I also always ask if it is...