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No, I'm now more anxious about it and feel more alone than ever. I feel no relief from it at all, just more guilt and shame. Some things are just best kept to myself. I'll have to tell her tonight...

I know, yet homosexuality is no longer considered deviant and is wholly accepted now, yet even in the gay community there are many who holds this same double standard of looking at us like sexual...

Well, i just spoke to my ex girlfriend who was my solid rock and still my best friend i still thought which I got on famously with for the last seven years about stuff... She finds my dressing very...

Hi Amanda. I do wonder for how long though, especially with more and more unwanted health privatisation in the UK. Maybe in rhe grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter though as once one...

Well, I think I may be Bipolar II for a variety of different reasons, or certainly something just as serious. Anyway I was referred to a care worker. I made a conscious decision to be as honest about...

TBH that's a good point which in my own ignorance hadn't thought about. In this extreme reversed example, while I am comfortable with my SO wearing mens clothes (as she does), I would be very put off...

I am also soooooo sitting here in judgment over you of what a real meanie Minnie you were to this poor SA girl. You've likely shattered her confidence and ruined her day. Tut tut tut.

Nah not...

I'm starting to slowly develop a bit of a belly on me, so I've been cheating a little by wearing my lil' black underbra corset when the need arises :heehee:

Well yes and no. I knew that I always liked women, but having very little luck with them over the years I did start getting confused thoughts about guys too. But the crossdressing was always...

Welcome to the forum. You look fab, and you're really lucky to have such an accepting girlfriend. Have you ever thought about growing your hair long? This is what I've just started to do. Many...

I think it's just common curtesy regardless of gender. I will keep the door open for anyone who is directly behind me regardless, and I expect women to do the same. If someone doesn't like it, then I...

It used to be deliberately sexy tarty when I first started, but now I'm finding I'd rather dress for casual comfort, and finding my own style. I am trying to keep it as feminine as I can though.
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No. I'm happy with my man sausage and also being a regular guy. I just do this privately for kicks and escapism :)

You're so condescending Veronica, dear.

Yes I've only been here a few months but what does that prove? That you're the only voice of reason and you know me more than I know myself? You're not here...

It's wildly ironically hypocritical how some proudly out in the open with it don't like to be judged by the world for crossdressing being told they're wrong for doing so and long to be understood and...

Me too through much of my life. I do recently have a girlfriend now though, and one nearby who doesn't live overseas. But I guess as I'm still on my own most of the time, that lonely bachelor feeling...

For me, firstly it's a fun sexy kink. If it wasn't a kink then I wouldn't be sexually aroused by it.

It's also a kink which I find comfortable and soothing in a way where drab mode doesn't do it....

Exactly Marcelle. Just because he thinks it's worth the risk himself to lose his entire family and be alone in it forever even though it worked out well for him, it doesn't mean that everyone should...

@VeronicaMoonlit

Please quit dictating to me how I actually think, like you know my mind better than I know it myself. You don't know me, my mind, my situation, my girlfriend and how she thinks,...

I wasn't lying. My "girlfriend" does buy and wear mens clothes, because she says she finds them more comfortable, and more convenient such as mens jeans has deeper pockets. Mens jumpers are thicker...

Well, I've decided not to tell my girlfriend. We kinda touched on the subject last night and she suggested she finds it too odd for a guy to wear women's clothes (despite her wearing mens clothes...

But my genetic gender is who I am too. I never said I wasn't. I'm perfectly happy being in drab guy mode too. I've had no identity issues with it and still don't. I guess this alter ego is to get...

I only recently got into it after the odd quick 5 minute dabble years ago. I haven't told my SO yet for two reasons.

1. We haven't known each other long enough yet for me to know whether she'd...

It seems it's only the ones who were lucky enough to tell and have the support are the holier than thou's who believe one size fits all, to come out with it regardless of consequences, because they...

OK let's look on it tis way, it's hardly something you can just casually drop into a conversation with your new girlfriend over lunch, is it?

"Oh by the way babe, I like to wear women's clothes,...