I'll speak for myself. I was a fool who saw who I thought my wife was on the road to becoming. And on her best days she is that person but our best days are rare. The rest is cost benefit analysis....
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I'll speak for myself. I was a fool who saw who I thought my wife was on the road to becoming. And on her best days she is that person but our best days are rare. The rest is cost benefit analysis....
If i've had any time to dress at all (a rare wish) I do laundry when ever I know I have 3 ish hours with my wife out. The cheap hosery I just replace periodically its not like I'm working out in...
I suspect not one actually gives a flying rats left *ut what anyone wears. It's all the assumptions that go with it. If you can get past the assumptions and the negative stereo types and get them to...
It sounds like your wife cares about how your dressing affects you more than how it affects her. That is a true treasure of a human being.
Internet window shopping.
I'm sorry you aren't happy with the pictures. I think the dress a jacket combo looks lovely. I kind of agree with your on the shoes. I can't put my finger on it but the shoes just aren't working. ...
Like all have said i'm sorry for your loss. I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to wear your passed wife's clothes. You sound like a husband who loved his wife more than crossdressing in her...
I don't go out but I often wondered if someone saw on of my photos here if it would click...
The dress is very pretty. I think all of us in the closet have had a deprived year. Glad (and a little jealous) you get some quality girl time.
Maria,
I don't think anyone here is surprised by this as even those of us in the closet are highly aware of transphobic behavior we encounter in our daily lives. I don't want to think about how...
Congratulations! (beyond that I have no advice to offer.) :)
Its never just one thing I always notice. It might be the color or cut of a garment, it might be hair, it might be makeup, how she moves, a perfume..... it could be anything. Something usually...
wow, thanks for all the interesting thoughts. The conversation drifted more toward sociology and astrophysics (im looking at you Diane :) ) than i expected.
Just a crazy thought experiment.
How do you think the various flavors of gender expression would feel or think if all gender identity was masculine? Would we feel like something is off or we...
My wife and I are so deep into DADT that it might as well be a secret and I would never burden my 5 yr old some with my secret. Even with so few opportunities to experience more feminine things I...
Honestly those kind of shared jokes are great in a relations ship no matter the subject. The fact it affirms crossdressing that most women would disapprove of is icing on the cake. (lucky!)
My wife would agree with you even without considering CDing. Like most things some of it fits some of it doesn't. I like my psychiatrist in that he's not to interested in labels so much as tool...
The whole "if they don't accept you they aren't real friends" thing is an over simplification. Every relationship has boundaries and limits. The limits of some of your relationships may not let your...
One more vote for this interpretation.
Glad you had some rare time to do something that makes you happy.
It’s not so much about being what you want to be as it’s a slogan saying girls shouldn’t be intimidated by “prestigious” and “challenging” careers like engineering that typically aren’t female...
I think it’s a gray area for me. It’s not something I will die or spin into dysfunction without dressing but for all the problems it could cause me I still always come back. So in that way it’s...
I don’t really explains crossdressing so much as it explains hostility to transgenderism. It doesnt explain why a man would do something that rationall buys him nothing but it’s a plausible...
If it really is about your wife not having an outlet maybe it would help her to talk to a therapist about your cross dressing without you there. I know that being “outed” can be a constant fear but...
Its nice to believe that honesty is the best policy etc but life is not that simple. You’re likely the person in the best position to decide if telling your secret will irreparably damage your...