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I shop in Manchester plenty, my advice is shop when it is busiest. Yes, sounds counter productive but for me it helps me blend in since I always shop in guy mode. I do get a bit red faced if I need...

That is a very brave thing you did to be as open as you have been. That is a character defining moment for you, the courage it takes is immense as you are well aware. As well as that, it is a step...

You've done it before, with the benefit of hindsight I am sure you will be better presented if that is what you want. Therefore, I elect you go out, and due too the fact you posed the question, I'm...

A good step it is, I am happy for you, Dianep! I hope it helps you and your wife to feel more comfortable in future regarding dressing, it mustn't have been easy getting this far I can imagine.
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Why is the question on everybody's lips, be it for gender identity, sexuality and indeed even existence in itself. Science has long had trouble with the question "Why?", it can tell you what, when,...

I did neglected to mention that, staying hidden has the issue of being caught, when washing clothes, under-dressing or even not locking my room while I'm in the lavatory. Being caught, now that would...

You don't need to buy into it Tracii, but it is how I feel. I'm dressed soon as I get in my room, when I leave my room I dress male not because I want to present male but because I'm hiding the real...

Hey there everybody! :3

I am a student and live in a shared house with 5 other guys I've known and lived with them for almost 2 years now. I've arrived at the point where I no longer feel ashamed...

Cliques are part of every day life in my opinion, I think we are all in one in some shape or form. It is a matter of not letting that get to your head, but it is easier said than done. People like to...

Equally I disagree when this statement is made. New relationships fair enough, learning about each other and gaining trust over a few years is reasonable. Getting married and secretly dressing and...

What a world we live in, of such variety, contrasts and choices. There is so much difference in everything, categories with sub-categories of which have sub-categories and so on. This connects with...

I try to dress like a girl my age, I especially avoid revealing clothes because I'd look pretty awful, not to mention I don't like the "trampy" look on actual girls anyway. It is rare to see a girl...

If womens clothing were OK to wear and nobody would judge me for the clothes that I wear, I'd be very happy. That said being a man wearing womens clothing is weird for me too, certainly for me I...

I'd take the pill, not for any dislike for what I do. I am actually rather fond of it, but if it will not change who I am then other than the act of dressing and wanting to be a woman - that would...

This isn't about you anymore, its about both of you now. Your SO has "found out" in your words, so I am assuming you didn't even tell her yourself. Now how would you feel about that if you'd found...

A bikini set and a shaver, that way I can be mostly dressed and looking good!

Suzy, do you really think that everyone around you is that backward. :O Surely people have moved on from pointing in the street, that must be horrible to have such intolerance surrounding you.

Kate, I feel it is only more than us when we are secretive, because you display a false imagine to everyone around you so they will be upset if you tell much later. But if we stopped hiding and I...

I have been thinking these days about how us MtF's of all types think of ourselves. I want to speak candidly about it to open a platform on this, so don't take offence, none is intended.

I feel as...

I am not one to judge how you live your life, but I feel like that is not a very good attitude at all. If it is agreed that is how it is going to be in your relationship, fair enough but it comes...

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I am very much the same, people seem to want us to be a different person if we dress, I'm just as I am but for the cute dress. Its funny you mentioned usernames, I signed up with my real first name...

Firstly, thanks you all for the replies and shows of support, I do appreciate you all! :3 Just to clarify, I can live comfortably without being "labelled". However, I am labelled by others whether it...

I've been thinking so much about this recently about if I'm transgender, but I don't know if its quite right to say that, I see myself as a free person who wants to enjoy the best of being a man, and...

I think it may also be a good idea to steer a conversation that is related to dressing to test the waters too. If you can find out her feelings about such things, before hand it can help your...