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Do you have goals or are they a distraction?

Goals and dreams? Not anymore.

Are you satisfied with the balance or imbalance you have now?

Sorry for the delay in replying I just needed time to get it together. But what else do you expect from a selfish childish jerk, as Tamara put it. I posted in frustration. I just needed to tell...

Seven years later, no sex yeah I get it, having a baby is tough. I confront her about that. She feels bad. I understand. I play the game. I don't judge. I let it go. But of course I'm TS, she...

I feel the same disconnect when I look in the mirror. But I'm only 5'8" with small hands and feet and a not too masculine face and figure. Really I should be more grateful. I'm lucky compared to you...

Well my wife usually buys me a nice a top, male of course. But this the first Christmas since I told her and I can only hope for a little something else. But I imagine I'll be disappointed. I'll get...

The funny thing is that my wife doesn't object to me wearing certain panties. I wear rather plain panties full time. But she didn't like it when I wore some more frilly items. She told me that she...

I found that adrenalin can get you over an eight foot wall in a tight skirt and high heels.

Very clever Leslie but I very much doubt our lorry driver would 'holler' on this side of the pond. He would undoubtedly 'cry out loudly'. 😆

We do say tights here but it wasn't always so. My...

I'm half afraid to go to a therapist. Not for what they might say but for what I might have to face up to myself. In any case I don't have the money so it's not really an option.

Yes as the...

Some of my earliest stuff came from that kind of source. My Mother would collect clothes from friends to be donated and I would always have a good look through. I wasn't squeamish about underwear...

I don't feel quite so ugly. I hated to see myself in photos and mirrors even though in hindsight I was quite good looking as a boy. But I'm a better looking woman as I keep telling myself. The...

I think we need to clear up something first: 26 is not old! You are pretty much at your peak. Enjoy it for what it is. IMHO we all only have ten years from 20 to 30 to enjoy everything 100%. After...

Like jenniferathome, it would only be important to me in the overall context of the full ceremony. Getting married as a woman is what I would have wanted. The dress I wore on the day is less...

In a physical sense you are male, so am I. But if it was a simple as that there wouldn't be a problem. I completely agree with Jennie-cd's comments. The actual difference between men and women in...

Very interesting and coherent comments. I always feel the nurture argument falls apart very easily. When you consider that many of us who are TS had conventional male upbringings. Yet we reject our...

I don't know if it's inherent but there has to be something at work because so many men crossdress. Of course society in general has always like to keep male and female in separate roles and in...

Thanks for the tips. I'm lucky to have a soft slightly high voice already but I've been trying to refine it for the times when I will be interacting with people when dressed.

Very useful.

Yes you're not the only one. Only this morning I bought a couple of skirts. I couldn't wait to get home and try them on. Believe it or not I have no other skirts. Once home I dressed up and was...

I used to think my wife might be my soulmate. Early on in our relationship it seemed like that. We were extremely comfortable in each other's presence right from the first time we met. We never...

Not practical when they're boots. Had to do it tonight. Reminds me why I prefer flats or wedges.

I think your idea of a 'mancave' is somewhat different to that of the average man! I don't see a single hammer or electric drill anywhere.:battingeyelashes:

Never been pulled over dressed but was stopped several times for no obvious reason. Once by uniformed officers in an unmarked car. They said I was speeding. I was a bit but they could just as easily...

I went out dressed one night to meet someone. I wore flat shoes for the walk and changed into my high heels when I got there. I also brought male clothes so I could change back because I lived with...

Yes for me too the clothes are merely a catalyst. It's like giving permission to myself to be myself. Arguably you can say you're playing a role. But my point of view is that while dressed as a man...

Ha ha, don't do it Beverly:) Nothing makes Londoners more uncomfortable than eye contact and speaking on the tube. :eek: I remember being on a crowded train in London that came to a halt between...