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I don't sense that folks here who enjoy wearing women's clothes have especially low testosterone but I do spend time on a forum where men have a hormone stew with elevated estrogen and lowered...

For most of my life I associated my desire to wear a woman's undergarments, specifically a brassiere, as evidence of my being a pervert. That meant, of course, that every time I indulged in such...

Sorry for your loss. I imagine we all know that it is our furry friends who among all the beings we meet on this human journey accept us unconditionally, exactly as we are. That has meant a great...

The sad reality is that crossdressing is viewed by most people as deviant. You can enjoy a wide range of interests and activities, all of which you can tell your friends and family about without...

I spend time on a website on gynecomastia where the subject of bra straps has everything to do with the embarrassment of being caught wearing a brassiere. Most of these men are adamant they are NOT...

I appreciate conversations like this because it means I'm not out on some fringe all by myself. When folks are simply celebrating this behavior I wonder what is wrong with me that it has brought so...

I visited another site with a crossdressing forum and read a thread with the title Crossdressing as a sexual release... A young person posted a comment that really resonated with me...



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I've been a slower learner when it comes to relationships. I was very adept at convincing women I was a viable life partner and four of them married me. I failed in every situation to recognize how...

I'm exploring my recent breast growth and now understand that not only does testosterone diminish but unlike women for whom all hormones diminish with age, estrogen goes up for men as testosterone...

Our minds are probably the most important erogenous zone in our body and I've no doubt we all have an internal picture of who we are when dressed... the fantasy of who we would be as a woman. We...

There are no easy answers here. I'm indulging myself with crossdressing and occasionally with pornography.. BOTH of which offer comfort to me and neither of which I characterize as addictive. ...

How brave of you to come out to family and friends with whom you're close. You're asking an important question and it seems Micki has distilled things quite simply.



I'm certainly not alone...

Appreciate this conversation as I'm exploring the inside of this experience, trying to understand how it all unfolds in me. My exploration is a bit inspired by the fact I'm living with gynecomastia...

When I reflect on working with the therapists I've engaged with I think the thing that mattered most was their willingness to go with me to places in myself that elicited shame and/or confusion. The...

Seeing the title of the thread I was excited to see what was on offer... then as I read the article I found myself apprehensive about how this audience would take the premise. I'm heartened that...

Having carried our desire to crossdress through life and encountering both judgment and rejection, it isn't always easy to accept the good things when they come our way. However you came to the...

One of the thousand different flavors for how we come to this behavior and how we interpret it. I was confused my entire life about what it was that led me to visit the parent's bedroom where I was...

Amazing how these journeys unfold and where they take us Charlotte. I imagine finding yourself in this place creates new challenges with your wife who didn't sign up for this particular adventure. ...

Hi Confucuis - I think it is natural because the means we use to "feel-good" as you say aren't universally accepted, that we spend a great deal of time here trying to normalize our behaviors... to...

This reminds me how much the fear of being caught adds excitement to behavior. It is a funny thing to think about. If we were completely free none of these conversations would happen because it...

Honestly, I'm inclined to believe it has something to do with self-soothing for me. Granted, there has been a sexual charge associated with dressing but the simple act of putting on a brassiere...

My reasons for dressing have nothing to do with presenting to the world as a woman. I'm a man. Dressing is all about conditions between my ears. There can be some physical comfort in feeling a...

Happy birthday from another Libran. The board needs every Libran it can get... we're BALANCED... :tongueout

I'd say soothing rather than relieving. Given the choice between putting on a Beethoven string quartet or a women's undergarment it will depend on my mood. Sometimes there is just an itch that...

Gretchen, do you talk to ALL the girls this way? :battingeyelashes::D

I'm sure you've heard about the elephant being described by the group of blind people surrounding it. And I'm sure you've...