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Whenever I hear of someone passing away, it makes me realise that you never know when your time might be up and it’s vital to get on and do the things we enjoy.

I fully empathise with your...

A couple of weeks ago, I emailed a friend of mine a short video of me speaking to camera as I wanted her opinion on how I came across.

I found her answer quite informative and enlightening. She...

If I could only have one thing it would be to have a beautiful 100% feminine face. Yes, the boobs and other bits would be lovely but they count for nothing if you are not seen as being female by the...

I can identify with that when I went for a new wig with my sister. We were walking round the town and I felt the same muted feeling.

However, for a bit of excitement, then I suggest going out...

Pamela's right. Just keep practicing. Read up and watch youtube vids to see what you need to do to get good results.

On the other hand, I once had my legs waxed and it was lovely to have someone...

Just wait 'till you see yourself in a video!
I agree with Allie in that the lighting makes a huge difference. Try soft, even diffuse lighting for the kindest type. Even GGs need soft lighting to...

I once watched a scientific programme that showed how some people are genetically predisposed to become psychopaths or even serial killers. However they would only become these people if the...

Do you identify in any way as being a woman? If not, I'm not sure why you need to know where you are on the CD/TG spectrum as you seem to have reached your ultimate goal of MWB which wouldn't fall on...

I think a lot of stereotypical behavours are imprinted during childhood which are usually hard to dispel.
Not only that, I would still reckon that in a good number of households, the woman still...

Tracii, no one is shooting you down in flames. I think most people here appreciate your posting of the video.
The issue seems to be our reaction to how Amanda is behaving. Yes, she is at liberty to...

You'll probably enjoy the 4th Dec even more as the anticipation will have built up even further!

Solution to shaved legs - get a bike. All cyclists shave their legs - it's de rigueur!

I don't think she's a crossdresser who wishes to be regarded as a woman but an entertainer in the same vein as a drag queen/female impersonator.
She seems to like getting attention (posting on...

Hi, Katie.

Come round to my house - I'll find plenty for you to do!

I take photos and videos of myself to help me improve my appearance. I also generally potter about. However, I got fed up of...

It's a VERY interesting question which I've pondered on more and more at this stage in my dressing. I'll be able to answer the question more truthfully when I see how this phase of my dressing plays...

Well done. I certainly feel more feminine when wearing my earrings.

Let us know what, if any, crap you did receive. It will be interesting to know if your your fears were justified or not. Plus...

Hi, Danni.
I'm assuming you've video'd yourself to see how you come across. It's a big eye-opener.
I try to raise my pitch slightly so it's just enough to be comfortable with and to speak clearly...

Michelle,

I thought the test was telling the difference between coke and pepsi!

Well done, you. Like Robin says, having a car behind you certainly forces the issue. I presume the nervous...

Ms Westin.

How DARE you decide on this course of action without running it past me first? It’s a good job I’m not in Area 51 or you’d certainly be feeling the sting of my riding crop!

On...

It depends on whether the lack of interest in dressing is related to your SO or simply part of the natural ebb and flow of dressing.
If it's the former, then talking openly about it with your SO may...

But Cincinnati to New York is only a couple of inches on the map. W-what? It’s HOW FAR????? Yikes!

I realise how lucky I am that my TG town (Manchester) is a mere 40 minutes drive from me where...

Hi Brandi.

This goes to show that most people have a preconceived idea of what a crossdresser looks like and are pleasantly taken aback when they actually see us fully dressed and made up. It's...

If we are talking about the word itself, then personally, I don’t like the word gurl. To me, the visuals of a word can sometimes be as important as the sound. I like the way my name Cheryl looks and...

Therapists and counsellors are people that listen to you, establish where you want to go with your dressing or how you can incorporate it into your life. The key is the word ‘you’. Only you can...

Pamela, what emotions are we talking about expressing? More weepy?, More short-tempered? More touchy?

I’m with Krisi here. We cannot change what we are naturally. What I would say is that I’m able...

Get sorted out with some hip pads, and then get a nice fitted dress.
Meal in a restaurant (accompanied)
Hit the dancefloor in a nightclub in said dress!