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The only substitution that works for me is sex. And in some ways it makes the urge even stronger.

The quick and naive answer, obviously: I'd seduce the first man I saw.

The more nuanced answer: I'm not that kind of girl! I'd hold out for as long as I could. I'd want to find the right guy. I...

I just realized that I asked for explanations for your choices, but I didn't actually provide one of my own.

For a long time, I would have preferred #1, but it doesn't go far enough for me. In...

I don't publicly identify as LGBQT, but I can't deny that I am. My secret feminine habits are totally Queer, and there's no point in lying to myself about it. I could be Transsexual, and sometimes I...

I had been stealing stuff for years, but I never found fancy lingerie, which I was really aching for. So at some point, I couldn't take it anymore, so I made up my mind to go to a lingerie store...

PAST: total secrecy. I didn't want anyone to know, least of all my wife. Meanwhile I would periodically borrow some of her things when she wasn't around, even though I had my own stash most of the...

+1 @LilSissyStevie Same for me!

It's been a confusing ride for me over the years, and I thought I had myself figured out until some recent upheavals. What I had concluded was that the idea of...

Here's a question I came across many years ago, which some of you might have seen:

You're given a choice between two options:


you must present as female at all times, but keep your male...

Heidi Klum.

OK, so poof, and I'm suddenly a biological woman.

I imagine I'm pretty much the same as before, except I suddenly have lady parts. My wife would notice first, and be pretty disappointed. My young...

It's always been highly sexual for me. I don't tend to look in the mirror much when I dress because I don't look very feminine, and it kills the mood for me. I get massively aroused at the thought of...

OK, I've been mulling this over for the last few weeks. I thought about a few dozen names, all of which have different levels of meaning. Former girlfriends' names, crushes I had, strong women in my...

(sorry if this posted twice, I had some trouble trying to edit some typos.)

I've been very cautious over the years, but I did get caught twice, and had one close call. Thinking back, I realize...

I was in the same situation for decades until a few months ago, when I forgot to hide my stash, and my wife found it. I had wanted to tell her over the years but I never found the courage. I won't...

I'm straight. The reason I crossdress is because I love women so much. But...

When I crossdress, it's a very sexual experience. It's all about imagining being a woman. For a long time I resisted...

After I graduated from university, I had a painful split with my girlfriend. By then I was living on my own, and with her out of the picture, I started cultivating my alone time to explore my...

Absolutely, yes! I envy beautiful women and the clothes they wear. It's especially hard sometimes looking at my wife, because part of what turns me on is the idea of wearing her outfits -- and then I...

For me, it's not about comfort at all, it's about feeling feminine. There's not a person in the world who can convince me that they wear high heels for comfort. They're an essential part of...

My fantasy is to become a woman, be it magically, surgically, or miraculously.

I'm with you, HollyGreene. That was exactly my Christmas wish! I would take it further to fooling around in our matching (or even not matching) lingerie.

I've tried a couple of different names at different times, but nothing has stuck. It always feels artificial somehow. Maybe it's because I never chose my male name, and if I get to choose my own...

I've been at this for decades, but I've never settled on a proper feminine name. Is that weird?

How many people here have sought professional psych advice about crossdressing?

I went twice, at the insistence of my wife, who was looking to have me "cured". The first listened, then helped me...

For me, it's very tightly coupled to my sexual appetite. It may ebb and flow based on my stress levels and other things going on in my life, but it does so in lockstep with my general state of...

If people know is one thing, but if they accept is another. My wife knows, but doesn't accept (yet?), so I rarely get to crossdress as it is. Even if everyone else in the world knows, as long as she...