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Question: Has anyone used the device from tucknit.com? If so, how has it worked for you, and how comfortable/uncomfortable is it? I'm thinking about it, and wanted some unbiased reviews.

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Char,
Thanks for your reply.

There has been no mention of dressing as a part of sex. In fact, there has been a) no mention of sex, since it's extremely rare that we even attempt it. That's a...

Well, it was 6 days ago (Monday night) that we had the follow on discussion, and things have been quiet since then, since I've been laying low.

Apparently, my wife's mind has been very active, and...

Well, that did not go well.

First, thanks to all who responded, and for the advice. I realized that you are right, that communication is essential. So I asked if she wanted to talk about the...

Some quick background without turning this into a dissertation.

My wife knows I have crossdressing desires, and does not approve. When I first shared with her several years ago (I had worn a pair...

I have far less than a DADT relationship with my wife. She knows at least a little of my interest, but not anywhere near how far I have taken it in the past. I have dialed it way back out of respect...

As I'm new to this, and I look at my internal thought structure and what I really want, I've seen something that is somewhat puzzling to me.

When I first started out a few weeks ago, I was drawn...

Interesting, Steffi - mine doesn't care how much my underwear looks like hers, as long as it didn't come from a woman's shop! I'm trying to figure out how much trouble I'll get into if I push that...

Judy-Something, DADD sounds rather severe. How do you deal with that?

This is a follow-on question: For those in either a secret or a DADT relationship, what do you do with all your STUFF? Okay, the clothes can go in a closet in a room that's off-limits, either by...

Remember, I'm a newbie at this. And they say the only stupid question is the one you don't ask, so here goes...

From time to time, some members mention going out dancing. That set my mind to...

Thanks so much for the info, Zoey. That's good to know. I'll check it out when the time comes.

Thanks, Danish, for your story. That's kind of where I am - retired, no income. I've looked at...

Yeah, I would say so, and I"m not even all the way there yet (no wig or makeup yet).

Two days ago I added a cheap necklace I bought on clearance at Walmart, and I REALLY LIKED the way I look. It...

Thanks, Pixie and Monica, for the information. I guess I sort of wondered if the attitude was something like that, although I didn't realize it would be that bad. Thanks for opening my eyes.

I saw several references in this thread to using a "transformation studio". How do you find those? I live near Dallas, so it's not like I'm out in the boon docks, but googling "transformation...

Thanks, Patience.

Okay, this is an off-the-wall question, I'm sure.

I know we have lots of members on here from the US, the UK and maybe some other European countries, Canada, Australia, and other places.

Is...

Sorry for the confusion, Linda. I meant "fully closeted" with respect to my wife. Everything has been hidden from her.

And, no, I wasn't considering going to my physical "fully dressed" - just...

Our local chain of thrift stores had a Veterans Day sale - 50% off everything. Since I was planning to try on some tops, I had my breastforms and bra with a ladies V-neck sweater, but everything...

I'm new to the forum, and I've read a number of thread/posts where the poster refers to their relationship with their SO as "DADT" (Don't Ask, Don't Tell).

While I understand that every...

Sherry,

I'm not sure if it's restored my sexuality, but I know the first time I looked at myself in the full length mirror (from the neck down), dressed in a fluffy, pale pink sweater with my 36DD...

I'm very new to this, but I'm overwhelmed by all there is to learn.

I've had an on-again/off-again interest in wearing panties since childhood. But when I recently started farther down this...

Ressie,

That bit about the heels is the truth! I tried to wear mine to walk the dog a few days ago (pre-dawn darkness, nobody around to see me) just to get the practice. But I found walking down...

April,

I'm not seeing a sex therapist, but I showed up for my first appointment with counselor I'm seeing as dressed up a I have ever been - pink cable-knit sweater (with 36DD forms), black skirt,...

I'm 67 years old, and, reading the posts on here, I see several other ladies who would qualify for senior discounts at most establishments.

As a male, I'm not concerned about the effect aging has...