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    Read any history of the start of the AIDS...

    Read any history of the start of the AIDS epidemic and you'll find a pattern of decisions depriving funding and care to people because, in the minds of those in power, they deserved it. Yes, I'm...
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    Have you actually attended a Pride Parade, or are...

    Have you actually attended a Pride Parade, or are you just parroting the FOX "news" view of the events? There's a huge range of humanity represented from the unfamiliar to families who look no...
  3. I'm going to pick writer or musician. Actors are...

    I'm going to pick writer or musician. Actors are expected to disappear into their roles, so you can't really tell role from reality and many would assume it was the former. Politicians and sports...
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    One thing that unites the LGBT community is that,...

    One thing that unites the LGBT community is that, from an outside perspective, we all violate the expectations society has for someone assigned a particular gender at birth. Who we're attracted to...
  5. I was referring to people who crossdress on...

    I was referring to people who crossdress on weekends, which was something I did for many years. Would you prefer "non-weekday crossdressers?"





    Now I understand the confusion. I certainly...
  6. Of course there's another companion question: who...

    Of course there's another companion question: who already has, and how hard was it to put at risk? Anyone whose gender identity is strongly opposed to their assigned gender will likely spend decades...
  7. That's definitely how I read it. Could you...

    That's definitely how I read it.



    Could you kindly point out where I denigrated a community I'm very fond of? If you'd prefer a different term to distinguish between those who live their lives...
  8. If you don't think any women are offended and...

    If you don't think any women are offended and quite willing to protest being called "chicks" then you're getting a rather limited perspective. It's not exactly a world-class insult, but it is...
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    I think the sexuality aspect of this has been...

    I think the sexuality aspect of this has been well covered by others, but the whole mindset of not being concerned about gay rights / rainbow stuff? All that says to me is that you're so afraid...
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    Truer words were never spoken. There's no...

    Truer words were never spoken. There's no particular pride or glory in being transsexual that anyone shouldn't have in being true to themselves in whatever form that takes. When I attended my first...
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    Right side, and I'm right handed, though it may...

    Right side, and I'm right handed, though it may depend on the purse. My preferred style are relatively small and hang to about my waist. I find it easier to remove my keys, phone, etc from my purse...
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    That's solid advice for a mere two cents! You...

    That's solid advice for a mere two cents! You may want to adjust your prices accordingly. Kidding aside, I don't have a lot to add. A really important part of communication in situations like this...
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    It sounds like you've got a healthy grip on what...

    It sounds like you've got a healthy grip on what comes next. There's no rush, no timeline you need to adhere to. Make decisions that feel like the right ones for you, and never think you have to...
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    From my own experience, I'd say there were two...

    From my own experience, I'd say there were two consistent surprises. One is that you're not guaranteed to have much of anything in common beyond the obvious. You're not likely to become best of...
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    Lots of good insight here and throughout the rest...

    Lots of good insight here and throughout the rest of your post. Differences in social habits seem to be strongly related to established societal roles. Men tend to focus on asserting their...
  16. Since I don't identify as a CDer I don't think...

    Since I don't identify as a CDer I don't think it's meaningful to consider my status, but I did want to weigh in. Not only are there sampling biases involved in surveying just the group here, there...
  17. The connection between the two is entirely...

    The connection between the two is entirely understandable, IMHO, and is part of the reason trans* folk are included in the LGBT umbrella: we represent an uncommon variation on the typical sexual...
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    Tangles are part of the bargain, and the...

    Tangles are part of the bargain, and the wind-swept look is forgivable in California. Not wearing a wig helps but I still keep a hair tie around the gearshift of our convertible in case the mood...
  19. Better safe than sorry. Someone who provides...

    Better safe than sorry. Someone who provides support and encouragement is one thing. Not respecting your boundaries is quite another!
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    I've never found the idea of a pink car even...

    I've never found the idea of a pink car even remotely appealing, but diversity is a wonderful thing! I love having all kinds of cars on the road to look at, being driven by all kinds of people. Our...
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    Hopefully this is meant in jest, because in...

    Hopefully this is meant in jest, because in practice it's a pretty confrontational approach. Discussing the subject is much more respectful of your partner's feelings and creates less ill will.

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    it can definitely still be an issue. Fidelity...

    it can definitely still be an issue. Fidelity and identity are two distinct subjects that she may well have very different feelings about. The one thing I'll guarantee isn't okay, though, is...
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    I love London, but I haven't been back since I...

    I love London, but I haven't been back since I got up the courage to be true to myself. The last time I was there in 2002 I attended Boy George's newly released play, Taboo, and the audience was...
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    In some ways that's what this forum is, a safe...

    In some ways that's what this forum is, a safe space to share with others where there's some presumption that we won't be judged too harshly. Trans conventions have similar appeal along with an...
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    You're selling a lot of the US short. Much of...

    You're selling a lot of the US short. Much of the West Coast is wonderful (Santa Cruz and Seattle I have personal experience with) and a lot of large cities are fairly progressive. The Northeast is...
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