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Congratulations on talking to your parents, it sounds like you're doing a wonderful job of fitting your feminine side into your life.
I've been following the parenting thread you started recently...

I've been out "out" during the day in Paris without any problem, but a friend of mine that's a TGirl from Paris has said she finds it much less acknowledged and accepted than in the UK. I have been...

Thanks for your responses, I guess not being out I'm still rather tied into the binary, and so still think of the two sides rather than one whole.
But I often feel so far away when en homme, it is...

There was an interesting survey by a Dr Vernon Coleman, I understand he placed a questionaire in a national news paper.
It is simply a reporting of the data, with a discussion of each section and a...

I realise that expressing my femininity actually helps me feel better about my male side too. Though it is distressing when I have to change back, horrible sometimes, at the same time I find...

I think it would be good, it certainly seems to provide as much support for SOs and partners as for CDs (I still see CD as coefficient of drag, hey I suppose it still is... in a way. The factor of...

Talisker, just saw your signature... Oh yes, Cheetara

If only there was a costume themed holiday coming up soon...

It sounds like you both have the measure of each other, I'm sure all will be cool.

You look amazing!
Happy Halloween!

Hi Carla
I think it is an expression of part of ourselves, to varying degrees for each individual. Stress relief is often mentioned, but I've always found the only stress it relieves is that caused...

It is something I worry about frequently. We have a seven year old girl and a boy approaching two, so as well as wanting to come out to my SO I have the extra feeling that I need to be out to the...

Actually your pictures remind me of Jessie J
love
Ivie

In hindsight I realise it has always been there, though it was only comparatively recently that I realised who I was, that I wasn't alone and that it is ok.
I remember thinking about wearing girls...

You can do anything with tape, and have to plan waxing in advance of social engagements...

Hi Sid
Sorry for the delay, I've not had chance to post since seeing your thread at the weekend; the extra thinking time may well be evident!

I think in a truly tolerant society there would not...

I find the only stress it relieves is that of not being feminine!

But in other news, definitely be open about everything, that's what therapists are there for ;-)

No, she's simply the feminine side of me. I had wondered when I was younger, and deeply confused by the fact I was attracted to women but also felt like I wanted to be feminine, if it was an...

This strikes one of my quandries, am I "doing" when enfemme, or "being"? I guess either way you'd be doing something if you trying to develop your look, but if you were being enfemme whilst doing...

Definitely! Take the job, you've far more options if you've got an income.
Then take your time and find the balance, looking to express yourself is never a bad thing; you just need to be considerate...

Guess you must've been by now, how was it?!
Love
Ivie

I have a wonderful wife, she's loving and caring and funny and beautiful, I need her because I love her, I need her because of her.
My feelings of femininity are just an aspect of myself, that...

Well in two instances, one distant ( I was honked at, and seeing as it wasn't followed up with verbal abuse I take it was a meant as a complement!) And otherwise repeatedly at Way Out. It was...

I just couldn't decide, at first possibly Summer after a name I'd heard in passing, then Jessica (after my wig!), none seemed right and recently I'd considered Lizzie Bryce after a local historic...

I think I might be able to sound androgenous enough not to stand out, but I've never had the confidence to properly try, when I've been out and needed to speak to people I just have and not had any...

Indeed, I didn't understand who I was when my darling SO and I got together and I so wish I had had the chance to tell her then. Now I'm agonising over whether, how, when, to tell and what might...