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Hi Underdresser, you may be right about it being more "self-critical" than "self-analytical".

I guess the more that I'm getting to know my friend, the more I'm realizing his love for everything...

I'm not a CD'er, but a born-female woman. My friend who cross dresses told me that when he was 20 years old his parents send him to a psychiatrist and he saw the psychiatrist for a year or so. He...

Thanks again for all of your responses.

Although, as I read over my initial post and as I think more about it, I'm not sure if I should have used the word "jealous"...maybe "disconcerting" would...

I remember when I young hearing someone say that women sometimes get jealous of men who crossdress because the men sometimes look better than the woman.

Well, I'm beginning to think that there may...

I want to thank everyone for all of their insight. He and I did talk more about it and I think there's varied reasons but, mainly, what I got from what he said is that it's very sexual and when he...

Hi Tracii G. The reason why I am wondering if it's something deeper is because I became aware that he was on a site that had to do with males that became women and left their penis' intact. It's a...

Hi Teresa, I'll try to clarify - I adore him and the reason why I just want to be his friend is that he's married. Would I be with him if he wasn't married - probably. If we ever were to be...

Thanks so much to all of you for the answers - definitely a wide variety and all very informative.

I guess I'd say, rather than that I'm trying to be polite with him when we talk about things,...

Thanks Tracii G. Our friendship isn't just online - we talk on the phone and communicate other ways - maybe some day if he outlives his wife and if I'm still single, I'll meet him...but no intention...

Thanks for your reply. He does only underdress and if it makes any difference, it's all extremely sexual for him. He underdresses 100% of the time.

Thank you, Lorileah. I think you answered it for me, and I don't think I'm going to ask him unless the topic specifically comes up. I don't think any differently of him one way or another - it's just...

Does it make you feel uncomfortable when asked? He's not out to people - only his wife and immediate family know - and myself. I don't know if it's appropriate or not to ask even though I'm very...

Well, I understand that for most CD's on here having breasts is a common fantasy and that most wouldn't transition. I guess my question is for the men would love to have breasts (even though they...

Thanks TXcrossdress. I don't want to rehash the "wife" thing because I'm sure he won't tell her about our friendship because he doesn't want a divorce and I think I'm the only woman that he can...

Hi, I was on this site a while ago (I'm a GG) and I posted about my friendship with a CD'er who is married and about 20 years my senior. We had struck up a friendship - we don't live in the same...

I was going to reply to the thread that Issha started, but it was closed. Here is my last statement on the matter. Thanks again all for your replies, regardless of where you stand in the matter.
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Thanks for your response, Teresa. I think you're probably very right and I'm okay with him doing nothing about it. I'm not putting any pressure on him to do anything at all, and nor has he put any...

I can answer part of this for you. The fact that he's 20 years my senior is just a fact and it's not like I'm 25 years old either - I'm a mature woman. The part about him being very generous - it's...

Sorry, I wasn't going to come back to this site, but I have to respond to this as I feel again like judgments are being unfairly made. The reason why I sent him panties was because those are the...

So you obviously feel guilty about this - says so right there. Yet you ask what people think - hoping to rationalize this because he's in an unhappy marriage with a spouse who doesn't accept him....

Thanks for your thoughtful response. He used your words exactly, he said meeting me is a "one in a million" opportunity. I guess this explains his generosity with me. I am glad that you wrote...

I don't believe his desire is to be "one of the girls". I think it's to have a normal relationship and have acceptance with "one of the girls".

Actually, I think we are both well aware that feelings can grow on both of our ends. This is life though, isn’t it? It’s not static. There’s an ebb and a flow and roads that we should take...

Thank you, truly, and that's great about your wife now accepting you now.

I appreciate your response, but stating that I can do "way better" is implying that he's a bad person. He's far from that and let me stress again, we talk. Maybe after talking to me, he'll realize...