Gay bars are probably ok, but I've been going to Outback, Applebees, and places like that with no issues whatever. I do generally go during the day for lunch and a beer or two, but early evening has...
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Gay bars are probably ok, but I've been going to Outback, Applebees, and places like that with no issues whatever. I do generally go during the day for lunch and a beer or two, but early evening has...
Sounds like a wonderful time out. I too vacation as Deandra with my wife and (knock on wood) have had no issues as yet. Yes, I do get the odd, sometimes disparaging look, but I try to remind myself...
First of all, I applaud you for your career helping to enhance equality at your workplace, as well as your employers for supporting that effort. I tried by best to level the field at my former...
Congratulations. Every step forward is a good thing. I have seen men in skirts around town locally and I think is is a positive step towards acceptance of different modes of dress for everyone, so...
I think you handled the conversation very well, and quite frankly, it was none of her business in the first place. But with hindsight being 20/20, I'm sure we can all come up with a different...
I'm tall too - 6' 6" in heels. I've been out most of the time for about a year. The turning point for me was to accept myself as a crossdresser and understand I will probably be recognized as a man...
I used to love it because I was the only one in the office. Did surprise a few delivery folks by meeting them as Dee. No problems, however....
Hi Brandie,
Thank you for sharing your life so far with us. I must say, you may have caused my mascara to run a bit. It takes all sorts of things to get us to acknowledge who we are despite the...
First time I went to work as Elvira - Halloween 2001 - female managers were pulling up their slacks and asking for a vote. Not sure who won.
Dee :fairy1:
We are hurting no one by expressing our femininity, but may be hurting ourselves by denying it. That said, there are many out there who want us to conform to their narrow minded view of society,...
I say go for it. Be the best dressed female executive in the office. Keep it to a business level, but go for the heels, wig and makeup. My suspicion is most everyone will respect you for the...
I would answer it honestly. If they don't want you as an LGBT person, you probably don't want to work for them. I worked for a seriously bigoted company for many years and I don't recommend it. I...
Happy Birthday. I hope you had a great time.
Dee :fairy1:
Gratefully, I now dress as I please when I go out. It might add a level of comfort if there were others around who were also out, but I've always been on the fringe so no big deal there.
As to...
I've learned much of what has already been expressed about heels and leggings and such, but mostly I have come to understand that as long as I am confident in how I am dressed in public, I am not...
The writer of the 'Walk Book' describes pantyhose as "backpackers long johns", so I don't think anything is sacred. Scots wear kilts and have for centuries. For me, crossdressing is trying for a...
Being honest I think is best. Ask if she found it, and please hold it for you you next time you visit. She sounds like someone you can trust. And it would go a long way to showing her you trust...
First Halloween I went to work as Elvira in 2001, the ladies were comparing their legs to mine, with some despair. :) My wife passed on that her boss (a marathon runner) wished for legs like mine. ...
Absolutely, but I think the stork was confused, so now I am too.
DeeDee :fairy1:
I am perfectly normal. It is the rest of the world that is nuts. :evilbegon
DeeDee :fairy1:
My best advice would to stay in your comfort level. I suspect we all go through periods of confusion and questioning and that's how we work things out. We crossdressers are often a combination of...
That is a good first step, how about your wife?
DeeDee
Can't help it, just way too cute. I'd like one to wear on the days I don't want to wear my tutu, but I can't find one in my size.
DeeDee :o
I'm afraid your wife is falling into a fairly normal misconception of crossdressing, that we are all gay men looking to attract another man. I believe this comes from drag queens who are performance...
In both male and female appearance, I've been hit on by men and women. My attitude remains the same. If I am not interested, I politely say no thank you (but with that caveat, I may accept the...