I'll echo what others have said - saying you're shopping for yourself will mean you'll walk out of there with better fitting stuff. I'll also echo what others have said in that VS isn't what they...
Type: Posts; User: Gaz; Keyword(s):
I'll echo what others have said - saying you're shopping for yourself will mean you'll walk out of there with better fitting stuff. I'll also echo what others have said in that VS isn't what they...
I do, and I am fine with it - to a point, of course. The difference is that when it gets past that point, I don’t refer to it as repellent, make it personal, or question her motives. That’s what...
While I'm obviously none too happy at her behaviour the other night, and not exactly over the moon at her apology-non-apology the evening after, my intent was to not start a wife bashing thread.
...
Appreciate that, Reine. I have zero problems with her opinions, wants, or needs. I think what hurt was that it came out of nowhere - again, I don't dress around her, and the last time I'd even...
The issue I have with being forceful about my needs in this specific aspect is that she's not the only one who buys into the social stereotypes about crossdressing, I do as well. It's something I'm...
Wow, ain't you empathic.
Am I the man of the house? That's not really a thing anymore, is it? I'm comfortable in my masculinity, but that doesn't mean I live in a house where the attitude where...
The problem (or lack of problem, I dunno) is that I look at all those things are purely clothes now. They're no longer taboo objects, or things I felt I needed to keep hidden. They're things my wife...
Well, last night was interesting.
My wife has known about my sporadic dressing since before we were engaged. It's always been a topic she's gone back and forth on - sometimes acceptance, sometimes...
Well, to a point though. One of the absolute most feminine items of clothing on the face of the planet has to be... the wedding gown. Most women will buy an off-the-rack one, and have it tailored to...
I... huh, I dunno. I hadn't thought about it. I know one of the battle cries of the crossdresser is "Why is it when women wear pants its fine, but if a man wears a dress its weird?!?!" but the...
I'm 100% fine dressing part time, since I only ever have the urge to dress part time. What does cheese me off is that when I do have the urge, the logistics of it - get up in the morning, get dressed...
Honesty and communication is massive, and really has to be that from day one.
From what I've read on this site and on others, where a lot of intolerance comes from is from wives who feel like its...
What Dutchess said - I have a fair few guy friends who would certainly be tagged as "neanderthal" by some. Yeah, there are times that their boorish behavior is over the top but it doesn't make them a...
It's all become a bit of an "us vs them" scenario. Although in fairness, its been a bit like that since I first poked my head in here five years ago.
But to just blanket EVERYONE with a term...
Similarly, I have noticed that some seem to go out of their way to inform everyone that whatever a person might feel about themselves is inconsequential, because what's happened to them makes...
Meh, I just sat on my front porch in jeans and a sweatshirt handing out candy, wishing I was inside watching the football. Halloween with kids is a lot different then without - for me, its all about...
^ Sometimes Miss wins the internet today.
*scratches beard thoughtfully*
Nah, not me. As I stated in another thread, we're all different and we all have different motivations or triggers for this, from people who suffer from true gender...
Heya Brenn - I just checked out yer blog, some interesting reading there - but my wife will 100% take umbrage with your review of Rothys, she thinks they're the absolute greatest shoe on the planet,...
Oh, I'm in my niche firmly! There's a saying we tell our kid - you get what you get, and you don't get upset. When I told my wife I'd had my epiphany, she chuckled and said "You'll wear what you...
Dear god Jessi, no.
If there's even the remotest HINT that MAYBE PERHAPS your secret getting out could POTENTIALLY do something regarding your being able to see your kid? Nope. Keep quiet.
I'm...
Sorry to hear you're going through that, Ginger. I suppose it's bound to happen at some point to everyone that "blurs the line" somewhat. Women are constantly bombarded by media about how they SHOULD...
Appreciate the kind words, thanks much.
Roberta, that's sort of what I'm getting at. Wider acceptance.
What I will say though, I've seen plenty of posts encouraging CDers to do more, be brave....
I've seen an ad for a HIV-related drug that had a trans woman in there as well as a few gay men. Because, y'know, only LGBT folks have to worry about that sort of thing.
...
Waiting is the hardest part. So did it come? How'd it fit?
But hey, the mail is better than - gulp - FedEx Smartpost. Which is neither smart, nor post. I ordered boots via DSW last month. They...