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Lidea,

While at the moment I don't have this issue I have been reading lots of the posts on here and just the other day I read where they were complaining about their GG wives and how they...

OK I've read all your posts and have to say - thank you - because some of you were very helpful in defining what's what and I do think I have more of an understanding of it. That being said - I...

This is a GG perspective - REALLY? you don't get it? All I ever hear is how conflicted you all are and how you dress one minute, purge another, dress again, shame, guilt, etc. It was explained as...

I have read through all the threads and wonder what my husband thinks of my support? I like to think I'm trying on the outside it looks like I support it (I have helped him buy things and have said...

Amanda M.

Actually the first time my husband and I went shopping we went out to have lunch (us alone on a date - doesn't happen often). We were visiting and conversation went towards me and not...

It's just my take on this scenario but I know I don't like the snarky, jokey remarks, and fishing. I'm a spit it out kind of girl. My husband found this out early as I would get annoyed with his...

Thank you Renie! I couldn't have said this better myself. My hubby and I were out of town about a month ago and I was helping him find some things and when we were done I was a bit quiet and he did...

Hope springs,

Thanks I try to be as honest as I can. I know at times that probably does hurt my husband but I want him to know exactly where I am and in that I hope he does the same for me - even...

I remember asking you that and the reason I asked is you sounded as if there was nothing of any happiness in your life - I even read it again to be sure before I asked you that question. I guess my...

Katey, I will give you credit, I do tend to do that. In my case though it's not because I have an issue but I may not KNOW that it will be (my testing the waters so to speak) But I REALLY do like...

Hey there - I was reading this thread and thought maybe you would like a GG's perspective but this comment above from Stephanie47 pretty much hits the nail on the head. My husband only recently came...

Renne,

I'm a GG and I can say that my neck of the woods sounds similar to yours - In our town and the surrounding area you are lucky if you see anyone in heels. Wearing such would make anyone...

Please don't take my comment of worst case scenario the wrong way - I truly feel that if someone ANYONE needs this then I am more than happy that they found the real them. Even if that would end up...

Isha,

Honestly I don't have the slightest. I still don't understand at all when you put the dressing into play - but I do love the person he is becoming. But I just can't see him as two...

Do you really feel that dressin is the ONLY pleasure and happienes in your life? As an SO this makes me sad -I would hope that our relationship and family and life in general was a part of my H...

Paula,

I heard the wants you wish you had but it seems you settled for the life you have an 'acceptable compromise' are you happy or resentful? I mean I don't think any of us ever get EVERYTHING...

I just got done reading through the 'Do you need approval?' thread and it got me to thinking. There were many posts that stated they didn't need it but rather wanted acceptance from your SO. As an...

Hello your comment leads me to ask a question that I have been wondering about - Short recap I'm new here - married almost 22 years and H came out to me in May and we are dealing with things. It...

My husband just came out to me a few months ago - and not so eloquently I might add. I have often wondered how it is he should have told me and if he had would it have aided in the overall mood of...

Please don't simplify it to just being about clothes - if it was just about an article of clothing then you yourself wouldn't have such an issue of this either. It is all much more than that at...

I can't speak for all GG but only myself. I know that if I happened to be back in the dating scene I would definitely hope that you would share the CD information with me before our relationship...

Hey there - I'm just tossing in my two cents and by NO means do I feel I have a handle on all of this and KNOW what is right - every relationship is different and reacts differently. We can only...

Hello - I'm new here and not sure if this is even one of the sections that the SO (I'm the wife of the CD) can post on but I felt compelled to share.

If this was happening in our home - I would...