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Whats holding you back? Is it just fear? Does it not feel right to you? Why do you want to interact with the world as female anyway, just curiosity? or does it feel more fundamental? I'm just trying...

Are any of us biologists? Is this medical school? The insistance on defining "male and female" in the context you described is only meant to hurt trans women and minimize our claim to womanhood. In...

I spent the weekend just doing my thing here in SF, both cis and trans scenes... Nobody seems to give a crap either way. Honestly, I found going out to cis clubs to be just... normal; even the...

well you are entitled to feel whatever you like, however your statement doesn't even remotely describe real life.

a friend of mine almost got fired for doing something nobody would have bated an...

Uhh you realize that doing those things have absolutely nothing to do with being a woman right? That's like saying you understand what it's like to be an alligator cause you wore these cool boots one...

care to elaborate on this a bit?

From what I've seen and experienced so far, transition is driven by the intensity of Gender Dysphoria... it authors its own timeline and you respond as necessary to stay alive - I don't really agree...

Stay on the burning plane cause it doesn't look like there are people down below that would like you? I don't think so!

speaking for myself here...

transition isn't something you "consider" or ponder over like going to college or changing jobs... its like jumping out of a burning airplane with no parachute.

you...

this seems a bit unreasonable to me - if you are 18 and haven't left the nest yet, sometimes you gotta do what you have to do - honestly at that age no force on earth would have kept me from dressing...

Hormones are powerful drugs that should be taken under the care or a doctor to avoid serious and potentially life threatening consequences... Side effects include sterility, higher risks for blood...

What are you hoping to achieve?

Just because the edges of the categorization may be troublesome to define doesn't negate the value of being able to group certain things together - in a practical sense, women as a category, despite...

Discussed in another thread on the TS forum, but I have had some serious anxiety about going out in my area... Specifically with regards to my safety in the restroom. I already have lots of good...

Exactly! Why not just be a man who wears women's clothes all the time

So I'm very new to this debate, and feel like i may be jumping into shark infested waters here...

But i think focusing on the clothing aspect is important

If you could have a woman's body and...

Some wise woman on here told me a while back that transition has nothing to do with the
positive feelings of presenting female, rather how awful you feel presenting male.... I think in most...

I feel like if I got in trouble and needed help, and was exposed as not "normal", could go ahead and count on not being seen or acknowledged by anyone.... One of those people who gets beat to death...

my advice... if you can, just halt all further communication about it till she has questions... and don't push her at all on this stuff. The fact that she didn't throw you out of the house means that...

I'm a bit confused what you mean by this.... how would you define transgender? Not trying to call you out or anything, but if you have discomfort with the "plumbing" and you are posting on the CD...

Has anyone ever crossed the border while dressed en femme in a car? Thinking about going out in Canada tonight with some friends, but don't want to have to change on the other side... Wondering if...

So funny!! I should am choose a name that related to jeep parts!!

When I was a kid, I used to go to summer camp in North Carolina for a month each summer... It was paradise, really fun, mostly centered on boats etc... , One summer when maybe I was 7, one of the...

I am not a psychologist... Nor did I stay at a holiday inn express last night...

Shame is the minds way of protecting you from social non-acceptance or ridicule... It's basically a failsafe to...

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