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Oh to be smaller and thinner and lighter ... LOL.
I've always wished I had stopped at 5'6" and could weigh what you weigh. Ah, but life had another idea.

Did you buy the same brand shoe?
Nothing is standardized so it could just be that that brand is made differently or that style is smaller than others.

It could be a reason for resistance.
When I came out to my wife she noted the same thing. She had grown away from the hosiery and dresses she wore when younger and when we met and was now wearing...

It could be the contrast between the "pretty feminine" sandals and the otherwise male clothing was the trigger. The dichotomy might have been hard to handle.
Try reserving them for when you wear...

I'm in the same category as Alwayshave.
I have feminine dreams now and then and sometimes I'm me crossdressed and sometimes I'm actually female. They are never sexual and generally quite average,...

Can't say. No female garment on or near me hasn't happened in 15 years or so.
What hints? Well, occasionally I'll make a reference to get a reaction. Like someone will offer me a second piece of...

I've been wearing exclusively panties of all styles for the last 15 years.
Do I ever need a break from them? Not in the least! It's difficult to even imagine not waking up and rummaging through my...

Truthfully at this stage I would say none.
There is nothing I do that is overtly masculine. Practically everything I do could be done by either a woman or a man.

I would whole heartedly agree with your list Paula.
Thankfully I have all but the last. She has no interest in that aspect and has stated so emphatically. Such a shame as I would desperately love...

That's not a very kind statement that "she can't pass and she's a woman".

I used to do that when my time was less my own. It got to be too much and thankfully now I never think about it.
Now if I'm dressed and the wife says "we have to go to X" I just say to myself "Ok,...

I don't think it applies to us any more than anyone else.
If you think it's true because we are concerned with our image and appearance then perhaps, but isn't the majority in that category.

Yes, I'd say I pretty much know everything I own. That's my little OCD moment.
I know what you mean about the back of the closet. That's why I took to heart the motto "One in One out". If I buy...

That's kind of the place I came to when I finally accepted myself and knew I had to be true to me and honest with my wife.

I've discovered it's not at all difficult to donate items I rarely or no longer wear.
I give them to the Salvation Army and being that I don't need them and it's a wonderful cause it's really easy...

Firstly, please use some punctuation. A sentence that long is difficult to follow for very long and gets confusing.

Many, myself included, have gone through cycles denying who we are and swearing...

I think the question is "Are you"?
We can't answer that for you unless you tell us if you are transgender. How you see yourself is the first thing to decide, then whether or not you tell someone...

Did the check in a few times some years ago when we took a "girls only" vacation.
I just filled out the form and gave my credit card (female name) and that was it. Never was asked for ID.

I hate categories and labels.
Everything is a gradient and different for everyone.
My gradient is full acceptance and understanding and it's made our love grow every day.

No, absolutely not.
They were chosen because they would keep my confidence, not to share it.

My first time in public was with my wife and we went to a shopping mall far from home.
I was in tight jeans with a nice blouse and flats. I wore my shoulder length brunette wig and of course full...

I'd say there were 3 people who had the strongest influence on me and helped me to be who I am today.
The first, of course, is my wife who through her understanding and acceptance helped me...

I don't think it's a hidden desire to be "caught". I simply think it's the desire to be free and go about in the world like anyone else without worrying about who's there.
I used to worry about...

Many years ago my wife uncovered my dressing.
I swore it would end, but we all know how that song goes. Fast forward some 25 years and I've had enough. I can't hide any longer and I decide as you...

I don't think there is an item for the list.
If a woman wears men's clothing everyone just says it's Menswear and ignores it. It's not tomboy, gay, weird or anything, just Menswear. Fashion even...