Among people who "speak trans" I say I'm a non-binary transfeminine person, among muggles I say I'm a transgender woman but internally I identify as a third gender, not male, not female, but a gender...
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Among people who "speak trans" I say I'm a non-binary transfeminine person, among muggles I say I'm a transgender woman but internally I identify as a third gender, not male, not female, but a gender...
You know who you should be asking, right? Ask your wife! This is a conversation you both need to have. I suspect Micki is right, but none of us know -- only your wife knows.
I get that from time to time. I like to think that I move through life unnoticed but, in fact, I guess I register with some folks. (To be fair, I still remember folks I met 50 years ago that for some...
Do not let one story put you off getting help if you feel you need it. But do understand that there are a lot of therapists out there and it's important to find one that matches your need and your...
This seems to have fallen into bickering. Thread closed.
I'd say nope. First, it's not a purge if you keep stuff. Second getting rid of clothes that you cannot/will not wear is not a purge -- it's called cleaning your closet. ;)
I use transgender. Transgendered is a malformation, in my opinion, like irregardless. But I'm a word nerd from 'way back.
Time fixes these things. Someday you'll realize that you have to come out, it's not anyone else's job to bring you out. As you read through the forum you'll see it happening all the time -- some...
Is it really the "Feminization of America" though? I was born in the early 1950's, less than a decade after the end of WWII. I'd argue that my generation grew up in a very strict, regimented society...
It sounds flippant, but the answer is that they are not essential until you decide that they are. It's a pretty common story on this site that people did without them for a long time, then tried them...
Awesome! Think about what you did in Las Vegas and see if there's a reason she thought of it as 'your thing' and not a shared thing. Don't do that again. ;) It would be cool if she could start...
I am one of those who can trace their attraction to dressing back to the single-digit age range. 10 years ago I was convinced CD was as far as I'd ever go. Turns out I was misinformed. ;)
For what it's worth, the current thinking by those who study such things for a living is that if your child is going to be transgender, they already are. If they're going to be cisgender, they...
Sometimes there's a difference between watching and Watching. It's kind of in the body language rather than the physical act of pointing your eyes at someone. I had a friend who went to Paris and she...
It's probably important to note that Teresa made a specific choice to open this thread on the Crossdressing forum.
Mostly the treats I give myself for good behavior involve chocolate or pizza. ;)
After I had been on hormones for about a year, I came back from a brisk walk, removed my jacket and saw this:
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It gave me a certain amount of delight but mostly I laughed about it. ;)
A topical article on transgender people and voice training: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2018/07/30/helping-transgender-women-find-their-voice/?utm_term=.d839d5b3de78
Aww, that sounds so cool! But that's Pride for you. I look forward to a day when Pride in the US doesn't have to be political but even still, there are still nice things and loving gestures going on...
Truth is best, I mean all you have to say is, "yes it is," with no further explanation, but you can claim it's a camera battery if you feel you must.
Interesting. I had the opposite reaction. I have a house full of instruments, all of which I can play moderately well, but I stopped playing after I came out full time. I'm thinking that the music...
A little on-topic food for thought from Vera Wild, a burlesque performer/trans person: https://youtu.be/3tN6etZ92BM
There's something so wrong about that sentence. ;)
Cool story. One of the things you have to keep in mind in the Crossdresser's forum is that there are so many individuals viewing it through so many different lenses. Sometimes, depending on who's...
For me it was having the insight that I'm a transgender person and so I look, move and sound exactly the way I should; I'm not trying to fool anyone. I used to say that I "walked along the baseboards...