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I'm not a man in a dress. I don't like dresses too much.

I'm a bald headed bodybuilder who likes to wear attractive things. Many of these items are only available in the women's section of...

I don't think so. That's where we sit for a great many people.

A cheater they can handle. A man who dresses like a woman is way beyond understanding.

The OP said it themself. His/her wife would...

So, ultimately, she has to come to the realisation that her husband is not a cheating tomcat but is, instead, a deviant pervert?

That's a tough realisation. At least 'cheating tomcat' has some...

Tara I'm terribly sorry to hear of your predicament.

I faced similar when my wife found a bunch of my stuff, and jumped to the conclusion I was having an affair. Explaining to her that I like to...

It is good that you have answered your own question. Personally I swing between thinking I wear these clothes purely because I like them, and other times thinking I wear them purely because they are...

How would you answer your own question?

I wonder if the blogger is just trying to find some balance. Forgoing other pleasurable activities in favour of just one is quite unbalanced, and I would say that about both bodybuilding and CDing. ...

I've grappled with this question for years and I still don't really have an answer.

For quite a while I embraced the label 'transvestite' then, reluctantly, 'cross dresser'. Neither really seemed...

There is a reason that there are dedicated lingerie stores and, to my knowledge, no equivalent for men. Also, the lingerie section of department stores are ten times bigger than the men's underwear...

There are some who equate drag with donning blackface, and see it as mocking women. I have a female friend who argues just this, and her arguments are compelling.

I have also heard some DQs call...

IMO there is no 'crossdressing side'. That is an attempt to compartmentalise a fundamental part of who you are.

Either accept it, or don't. But, don't try to pretend it is not a part of who you...

I'm a transvestite. I've tried them all, but 'transvestite' is the only label I'm willing to own.

I have no feminine side. I'm a guy who likes to wear a wide range of clothing.

Do you know why she is doing this? Does she think it is funny or is she being intentionally hurtful?

What are the three phases of personal acceptance?

Stage 1. Where you care about what people are thinking about you
Stage 2. Where you don't care what people are thinking about you
Stage 3. Where...

I hope this doesn't sound facile or stupid, but focussing on one thing at a time might be a good way to go.

Me, I reckon spending some time getting that ukulele song to sound better would be a...

I'd also be questioning why she felt she had the right to go looking through your personal items and then confront you with what she found. That would probably be a deal killer for me.

Letting...

I guess it depends if you are comfortable starting a new relationship with a great big lie from the get go.

If you reveal the clothes as being your own, and it is a deal killer, then so be it....

Thanks for saying this Jason. It is posts like these that keep me coming back here.

Sign me up.

Obviously NW Washington two step is the place I should be :-)

I don't usually shop in brick and mortar stores, but, the boxing day sales are a big inducement, so I ventured out.

I bought a bunch of nice cotton shirts, a couple of camisoles, some nice satin...

Hi MM,

You are not the only one here that is a big, hairy guy who likes wearing feminine clothes. I'm 182cm and 90kgs, and was a body builder for 25 years. My shoulders and arms are massive and...

I think I like shopping for clothes more than I like wearing them.

I work hard, and I work long hours, so getting the chance to choose some new items of clothing is a release for me. I can't...

Perfect.

After working as a high school teacher for many years, and reading many discussion threads like this, it might be safe to say that just about all kids are bullied at school. Schools are, in my...

Thanks to everyone who has contributed to this thread. I grapple with these thoughts all the time, due to the fact that I don't really think the term 'cross dresser' really applies to me. I have no...